This feeling won't go away OP. You will be empty inside for a long time.
also blast from the past for you to embrace anger, saddness, inner devastation and helplessness (warning: 4k pages)
I remember that thread. And even since it was started and written, I get the feeling that BioWare isn't listening, and hasn't learned. EC was a token gesture - an admittance that they screwed up the ending of the most amazing series - but it didn't fix the real issue. A good deal of the fans felt mistreated. All of the fun and joy of playing in the ME Galaxy was reduced to a small conversation with a Reaper Godkid who looks like a kid I saw in the beginning of the game. How can such an amazing team of writers come up with something so.... bad?
They wrote themselves into a conundrum with those ending choices, causing a divergence. Will ME: Next consider my choices from ME3? Is everyone a Borg? Is everyone dead? Is Shepard a Reaper? Did EDI and the Geth die, stabbed in the back by Shepard? If all of these are not considered, then well, its not my ME galaxy, now is it? No, its Mac Walters ME Galaxy - and that scares me the most.
Even with all of this time having gone by, and N7 day pulling up right around the corner I wonder of BioWare understands how many people have walked away - and how many more are willing to walk away even now.