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#76
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I'm finding this thread hilarious, partially because I dunno if Bunz is just ****** with people or if he's being dead-serious. If he is dead-serious, then he's certainly a vain, conceited, arrogant, egotistical ******. Mostly the comedy comes from that latter fact (I like to laugh at people. I'm a douchebag) but also some of the golden replies given.

 

My advice? Not that it'll do any good, since he's probably considering doing this anyway despite what people say -- though why people, myself once among them, feel the need to use the BSN as a place for advice is beyond me. We can be immature little shits most of the time -- but my advice is to not screw the pooch. Don't crap where you eat.

 

Though I like to switch it and say Don't eat where you crap. Wouldn't want an Elvis moment....

 

Seriously, at best you'll have a few good nights of raunchy sex that end with maybe a relationship. But that's unlikely, because let's face it... **** like that isn't common to happen.

 

I doubt there's any chemistry. For all we know you're imagining it. In fact, I'm betting on it. Even if there is chemistry and flirting between you, doesn't necessarily mean she wants to date you or **** you. I flirt like a ****** horndog, but it doesn't mean I have sexual designs on every woman out there. I know many women that flirt as well and don't have sexual designs on all the people they flirt with.

 

And you'll be (rightfully) charged with sexual harassment in the workplace if she's uncomfortable with how you're acting.

 

Hell, maybe you'll get a few good nights of raunchy sex but that'll probably end with the two of you being unable to work out, making working together awkward, eventually ending with some sort of confrontation that will get one or both of you fired possibly. And then you're out of a job and have to scramble to get a new one, but then when they ask why you were fired from your old job they probably won't be very amenable to the reasons.

 

I mean you do seem to be a manchild from your posts.


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So you become your friend? How is that an improvement? Does it really teach a lesson?


I cheated on no one.

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I cheated on no one.

 

Oh...look at the rationalizations...  :rolleyes:



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Oh...look at the rationalizations...  :rolleyes:


Pff, explain to me who I cheated on.

The girlfriend I didn't have back then? Or the friend I didn't consider a friend anymore? Come on, man.

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Pff, explain to me who I cheated on.

The girlfriend I didn't have back then? Or the friend I didn't consider a friend anymore? Come on, man.

 

So what would your (former) friend have done to his girlfriend if he found out she cheated? You turned her into a cheater while ruining their relationship, but you didn't ruin their relationship in a manner that would have psychologically scarred at least one of them. Physically is a different matter entirely, and one I have little to no interest in.



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So what would your (former) friend have done to his girlfriend if he found out she cheated? You turned her into a cheater while ruining their relationship, but you didn't ruin their relationship in a manner that would have psychologically scarred at least one of them. Physically is a different matter entirely, and one I have little to no interest in.


Lol what would he do? Are you f*cking kidding me? He cheated on her first.

This discussion is madness.

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Lol what would he do? 

 

Hell if I know, he was your friend.

 

Are you f*cking kidding me? He cheated on her first.

 

So therefore he should be cheated on in turn?

 

 

This discussion is madness.

 

Of course it is!

 

I'm involved!



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psych...you cheated on your girlfriend who cheated on you. It doesnt matter who cheated first. You still both cheated on each other. Two wrongs dont make a right.



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Just Divorced!!!
Of course I'm single right now. Best feeling of my life. Going to find me something worth while.

Unlike you, I'm able to have standards in my women. I don't have to go for whatever I can get.

this explains everything.



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Omg, I had no idea so many people without basic reading skills were on the internet.

I did not have a girlfriend at the time

So therefore he should be cheated on in turn?


Don't act like the girl involved had no say in this. She was there, she made the decision to cheat, I did not do this for her.

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Omg, I had no idea so many people without basic reading skills were on the internet.

I did not have a girlfriend at the time

 

I'm screwing with you. Chill.

 

Don't act like the girl involved had no say in this. She was there, she made the decision to cheat, I did not do this for her.

 

So you are completely blameless in this manner? You didn't even try to convince her to go along with it? She just out of the blue said "Let's bang k" and you being a typical male was all "Sure" diving right into the middle of that pool. 

 

For some reason...I don't think that's how it happened...  :rolleyes:



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Well to be honest, that's pretty much how it happened.

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Omg, I had no idea so many people without basic reading skills were on the internet.

I did not have a girlfriend at the time


Don't act like the girl involved had no say in this. She was there, she made the decision to cheat, I did not do this for her.

 

you cheated with a girl who was in a relationship...just because you werent in a relationship doesnt absolve you of cheating with this lady on her boyfriend.



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Well to be honest, that's pretty much how it happened.

 

Again, for some reason I don't think that's how it happened...

 

Now if this were a porno I would buy that...since it's real life...not so much...



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you cheated with a girl who was in a relationship...just because you werent in a relationship doesnt absolve you of cheating with this lady on her boyfriend.

 

Cheat is not the correct word here. I suggest using Malintervention. *is a dictionary*



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Cheat is not the correct word here. I suggest using Malintervention. *is a dictionary*

 

From what I can gather that isn't a word...



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you cheated with a girl who was in a relationship...just because you werent in a relationship doesnt absolve you of cheating with this lady on her boyfriend.


I disagree completely. I'm not dating the guy.

Again, for some reason I don't think that's how it happened...
 
Now if this were a porno I would buy that...since it's real life...not so much...


Just because things like that don't happen to you, doesn't mean they don't happen at all.

And I didn't record it (if only...) so there's no way I can prove it anyway.

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I disagree completely. I'm not dating the guy.

 

Which is probably because you think you enacted "vengeance" on your former friend.

 

Trust me, you didn't.

 

Just because things like that don't happen to you, doesn't mean they don't happen at all.

And I didn't record it (if only...) so there's no way I can prove it anyway.

 

Hell if I care.

 

It's highly unlikely that such a situation occurred without any prior input/hinting from you to create the situation.

 

If you had recorded it then I would be quite hostile about it. 



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 I need something good!!!!! :D

 

 

That's what she said.....couldn't resist

 

yea the bunz threads funny at first but overall on a scale of one to ten.its a 3.4

 

god the days of bsn i miss those threads from the middle of its time.i do recall such passion when threads blew up :D



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Like Shepard said, be good at your job and keep your personal life personal.



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If people meet on a job, and you can make it work go for it. Never know where you might find that special someone. Just know if it goes south it can become awkward fast. The whole cheating, because you've been cheated on doesn't fly. It hurts and sucks bigtime, but being the bigger person and saying to yourself that you won't stoop to their level is a better solution.

 

Don't ever let someone else's actions turn you into someone you hate to see every morning in the mirror.



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It's highly unlikely that such a situation occurred without any prior input/hinting from you to create the situation.
 

 

We had sex already before they even met.



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Let's change this shameless discussion...

 

So where is this guy right now?

 

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The men No.2 and No.3 of North Korea went to Seoul a week or to ago, but there is no sign of him. Has there a coup happened?



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Let's change this shameless discussion...

 

So where is this guy right now?

 

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The men No.2 and No.3 of North Korea went to Seoul a week or to ago, but there is no sign of him. Has there a coup happened?

 

Yes...