ok i do not like many in romances from DAO and DA2 but they was better what we have in DAI
in DAI for straight males give
andrastian non-mage human Orlais Chantry templar
andrastian non-mage human noble who is a best old firend of lelianna spy/assasin of the Orlais Chanty
even that some really put that straight males have the same number(and thats not about numbers) that gays and lesbians
this does not cover the fact that those 2 Li are almost the same by their nature, their beliefs...they are created mostly for the only humans non-mages inquisitors, for humans pro Orlais pro andrastian pro Chantry pro Templars Inquisitor
they will not romance you if you would be other that those type of character. if you belief and do everything what would oppose for what they fight and belief...this is look like you are a apostage blood mage who romance with fenris or cullen(forcing us to have him as Lelianna no matter what, was a very bad solution as "herald of andraste" thing)
even if some as playing those who oppose for every for what those characters stands for, and can deal with their personality, who they are and those LI will romance with you for some reason even if you will try to do all what must make you their enemies-not friend at least
...it s bad as human hawke romance with merril(i like merril always was friend and support her, but in canon never romancing her as human hawke...personaly i was like to have avelin for hawke or someone who is not a isabella)...i am happy that solas does not have those problem and he does not romance humans and i am sure he will not romance some inquisitors who do those things what he cant like or respect..yeah the first character who is not a playersexuality slave.
DAO have real different opposive characters to romance as DA2, in DAI only females(they does not have only some dwarf man to romance for a full collection..2 really different humans, elf and kossith) and gays with lesbians have those difference and opposive options
i was asked for a future story DLC to add a 1+ female non-human non-andrastian companion/advisor who would by her nature and beliefs oppose those 2 almost the same Li what straight males have now...the 1+ li option who would be created for non-humans non-andrastians, pro-mages, anti-Orlais anti-Chantry, anti-Templar characters.....make them make her race restricted if it helps to make her better
So why is a Hawke Merrill romance somehow wrong cannon wise? Granted I wasn't interested in her romantically but i see nothing Cannon breaking.
I found the above really hard to read but i think you are just saying that you want a romance where the companions agree with your character politically on issues within the world of thedas. If so...
Your point isn't valid, beyond that you SUBJECTIVELY want X but instead bioware gave you Y.
The Inquisition is BORN out of Andrasteism, it makes sense that that vast majority of their followers are andrastian in their beleifs. You don't like it? Too bad, the story they are telling is this one. They are not telling a Qun centered story arc, they are not telling a PURGE the chantry story arc.
The Inquisition is fuelled mainly by members who beleive in Andrasteism, they are former members of the Chantry, You are not the "Hero of Fereldan", or the "Champion of Kirkwall." You are the "Hearld of Andraste," expect that many of your companions and followers are going to follow you BECAUSE they are followers of Andraste. While I support any player to play their character how they want, it is my opinion that players should not pick stances that are in direct conflict with the story being told by Bioware. Why? because although it it your right and privilage to play any type of character you want you are going to be running against the gain of the plot and you will find far too many choices just don't match what your ideal. If you want to spread the Qun over all of Thedas I doubt you will be able to do so, its why the Inquisitor's background states he is not part of the Qun. It is fully with in your right to play such a character but EXPECT the story to run counter to that. If you want a character to Purge andrastian belief from Thedas you can expect the story to NOT allow you to do so. Play you character how you want to by all means just don't expect Bioware to give you what you want, just because you want it.
Bioware can't be expected to sanitize their romanceable companions from the politics of Thedas just because SOME players might create anti religious characters. If you want to play an anti religious character in a Thedas than embrace it don't try to mitigate the experience, part of that experience is that you will have fewer options in romance because you are taking such a contrary position to the majority of the population. Suck it up.
It is not Bioware's responsability to provide you with a romace based on imaginary political factions in an imaginary world. They have taken a very measured and inclusive stance on Gender and sexual orientation in their games and that is all what we as gamers should be measuring them by.
Are the romances in DA:I representative of the world we live in, in terms of gender? Yes both genders are represented.
Are the romances in DA:I representative of the world we live in, in terms of Sexual orientation? Yes we have gay, bi and straight romances
Bioware has been representative and inclusive in their approach to romances demanding they cater to your EXACT SUBJECTIVE desires is unreasanable.