Nefla said it was because my friend walks how the Inquisitor does that I didn't want choice. That was incorrect. I don't want choice now because people have been jerks. They shouldn't be rewarded for their behavior.
I don't think everyone who wants different animations or a choice of animations has been a jerk, especially since I'm quite sure that not everyone who would want it has posted in this thread.
People should attempt to debate such things with at least some measure of diplomacy, and especially without resorting to insults and slurs, but unfortunately that doesn't always happen. Rarely is it only people on one side of a debate who behave like jerks, however, and not all of them on either side. I can certainly recall some threads where people have been quite insulting towards other games where the female character had animations that they felt were too 'manly' (including an equal level of implied insults about women who actually walk that way).
That being said, it's incongruous with what we know about "tough". I'm a big fan of incongruity like that - I tend to really push the envelope for it as much as I can get away with it in my persona/professional life. But it's a YMMV, and I get why it bothers some people.
It's a perfectly valid choice, I agree. It certainly isn't right for every character, and I think it would be best if the choice were there for both female and male characters -- even better than simply having a neutral animation for all, although I'd happily take a neutral animation for all over the current female animation set with no choice (because it won't work for the majority of the characters I will probably want to play, so I'll either have to find a mod -- hopefully -- or try and ignore it).