From what Ive gathered this whole issue is wrapped up in a bunch of issues. First lets melt down the REAL core beliefs of both sides.
1. Gamers are against biased and corrupted journalism in videogames.
2. Women are against sexism in videogames.
BOTH statements are valid. But the politics and the propaganda from both sides have warped the movement of what is being said.
This leads us to where we are, any criticism against journalism or an opposition is misinterpreted as sexism towards women in gaming because of the "Gamergate" movement.
Gamergate has become a double-edged sword that means 2 different, yet valid things to 2 different groups of people who at their core, should be on the same side.
My suggestion, lets drop all pretext and labeling of either side and start fresh with clear and concise core values and a denounciation of those within either movement who resort to underhanded means such as cherry-picking at an issue or issuing death threats.
Let the gamers shun those who would steep to such lows as harassing women, and let the feminist critique those within their circle who would only wish to propogate a biased view of the situation.
There is good in what is happening now, but a few rotten apples are spoiling it for BOTH sides.
Be excellent to one another.
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