Same. I went all star eyed when she called me her friend.
But i wanted more friendship moments.. like scenes you get when you're friends with companions (just like how if you romance them)
One that comes to mind is from ME3. I really enjoy the scene where Garrus and Shepard have the shooting contest on top of the Presidum. For those that haven't played the ME series, Garrus has a very dry sense of humor, but by ME3 is very loyal to Shepard. However, there has been this little bit of competition on the part of Garrus after knowing him/her for over 3 years. So he breaks the rules (hey, end of the galaxy and all), and heads to the top of one of the most richest parts of the Citadel. He then proposes a shooting contest with bottles.
The first time I played the game, I romanced Liara so Garrus and I had a solid friendship going. That scene is a lot of fun and a pretty lighthearted moment when it was needed in the game. Now, I'm romancing him this time around. While there is some very romantic lines for the LI arc, most of it plays the same. Joking, giving each other a playful amount of grief over each other's shooting skills. If you intentionally miss, the outcome is mostly the same except for the line, "That's okay. I know there's other things that you're good at."
I think for me that's something lacking in DA so far. There hasn't been many fun/lighthearted moments that blend the friendship scenes with the romance flagged as at least active. You've got Sera being a prankster, but I'm not sure if the dialogue changes if a romance is active. You've got Cullen in that great scene playing chess. That is a lot of fun but again, same thing, and I know that from getting to that scene while doing his romance. You've got Josie and the IQ having a conversation...that mostly fades out as soon as the actual stories start (grrrr.) Bull and the IQ getting drunk was good, but not everyone likes having their character drink just to bond with a teammate. I do think are all great examples of the friendship arc so, at least imho.
Yet, those friendship scenes almost never mention the romance arc. I'm racking my brain here, and maybe I'm wrong, but there isn't a lot of special lines in those scenes. Sure, you can flirt, but I don't think it really mentions an existing relationship. I've noticed that in DA in games in general; that the romance and friendship arcs don't mingle well. Excepting some of the more major LIs, such as Morrigan and Alistair. Nevertheless, more often than not, the two arcs are mutually exclusive. That's a little depressing, because I know the writing staff is truly capable of a more fluid romance arc.
I know that Garrus and Shepard had 3 years of friendship under their belt, and that adds a lot to the scene. Also, it helps that I didn't find the character of Garrus too angsty. He had his issues, no doubt. However, once you did his loyalty missions [in ME1 as well as ME2,] he's pretty good at letting things go. You don't have to hear him whine the entire game(s). Fenris, Anders, love you, but...stfu. Still, I think they could do something along those lines for this IP.
I might have more, but I hope that answers your question Lady. I apologize for putting so many ME references into my post. I've not only been replaying it, but I was studying what exactly about my favorite ME friendship/romance arc worked for me. And why I feel the romance arcs didn't mesh as well with the friendship arcs in DA:I.