Not even remotely what Andraste was saying.
Indeed, that's what I said, not what Andraste said, however using Andraste's structure to create a kind of close paralell, but not to identify the source.
I also did it in the second sentence by the way.
You like Dragon's Dogma right? Well lets take Mercedes from DD as well!

Once again sort of pragmatic KISA.
Heck lets just take Meredith pre-Idol I mean why not!

In her case, she is certainly sort of pragmatic and gray, more on the pragmatic and gray aside compared to Shan but you can sense very faint traces of like that a take no prisoners attitude as well.
See what I mean? The limitations on "person needs to kiss X, tell X they think they're cute," as pertains to sexual activities are severely limiting and warping the understandings of people and relationships with those sexual acts such that people are tossed about and end up in the exact opposite place you would expect to find them.
By the way this is an inverse sword, you can see that right? Look at a person who identifies as mostly pretty much just not anything, maybe just has sex mostly with their male partner as a female, but then there is the one time, the one time almost as joke they go "Hey I think this other girls cute and I'm going to tell her that and kiss her,"
This is inverting the people who play at one thing with the people that actually are by setting a flimsy trigger to go between the two.
Are we going to call a porn star that kissed girls twice for the money and says it as part of a scene that she was paid to do and who normally isn't gay at all and puts a toy knight porn star prop hat on her head in a brothel in ME or DA and calls herself a knight a gay KISA? No! Of course not.
And yes I edited my comment a lot but Dragon's Dogma is kind of cool and so logically must be the players.