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[Hellion Rex]

I'm pretty sure you can have gay dads without them being married.

Quite...and I don't see them being married anyways. And if they were, I think that'd be waaaaayyyyy outside the norm for such high nobility.

[Grieving Natashina]

Quite...and I don't see them being married anyways. And if they were, I think that'd be waaaaayyyyy outside the norm for such high nobility.

Yeah.  I'm betting they weren't overt about it.  Chances are that the Arl's biological dad is a widower, or otherwise has an arrangement with his wife to keep up appearances.   Arl might have had his father's "best friend" around growing up though.

[sandalisthemaker]

Awwww. Arl Eamon had two gay dads.  

 

Now if only we could actually see two gay dads in game.  Or two moms.

[Hanako Ikezawa]

 

I'm pretty sure you can have gay dads without them being married.

Quite...and I don't see them being married anyways. And if they were, I think that'd be waaaaayyyyy outside the norm for such high nobility.

Yeah.  I'm betting they weren't overt about it.  Chances are that the Arl's biological dad is a widower, or otherwise has an arrangement with his wife to keep up appearances.   Arl might have had his father's "best friend" around growing up though.

 

Then Eamon doesn't have two dads. He has a dad and a man his dad is sleeping with. Since the dad and the other man aren't married, there is no family connection between the other man and Eamon. 

[Grieving Natashina]

Awwww. Arl Eamon had two gay dads.  

 

Now if only we could actually see two gay dads in game.  Or two moms.

Yes!!  

 

Still, this is an amazing start and I'm pleased as punch that they are going to leave this one be.  

 

A lack of marriage doesn't change if someone is a dad to a child or not.  It doesn't matter in that case, it's how they raised the kid together.  If Arl's father's partner was just as much of a parent to the Arl as his biological father was, then he had two dads.  

[Sully13]

Im pretty sure this was braught up before. the homosexual nobles would mary for conveniance and simply carry on regardless. simply shareing a house and name. im sure it was brought up in a thread and was a note about aferes or something 

[Who Knows]

 

 

 

Then Eamon doesn't have two dads. He has a dad and a man his dad is sleeping with. Since the dad and the other man aren't married, there is no family connection between the other man and Eamon. 

 

Are you serious? There are plenty of people whose parents aren't married (including straight couples). Or even biologically related to them. It has a lot more to do with who raised them than anything else. The parents don't even have to be romantically or sexually interested in each other.

[eyezonlyii]

I just, this is too much...

 

This thread:

 

For Sir Weekes

[Hellion Rex]

 

 

 

Then Eamon doesn't have two dads. He has a dad and a man his dad is sleeping with. Since the dad and the other man aren't married, there is no family connection between the other man and Eamon. 

 

Uh, you're flat wrong. You don't have to be married to get 2 dads.

[Grieving Natashina]

I love how that second gif looks almost vaguely threatening, eyezonlyii.

[sandalisthemaker]

 

 

 

Then Eamon doesn't have two dads. He has a dad and a man his dad is sleeping with. Since the dad and the other man aren't married, there is no family connection between the other man and Eamon. 

 

 

If Eamon's father and his male partner were the ones that raised him and loved him, then that is enough to make them his dads.

[Hanako Ikezawa]

par·ent

 noun \ˈper-ənt\

: a person who is a father or mother : a person who has a child

 

That other person isn't the biological father or mother, or isn't even a step-father or mother through marriage. They are not a parent. 

[Sully13]

dud david Tennant can threaten anyone.

[Hellion Rex]

 

par·ent

 noun \ˈper-ənt\

: a person who is a father or mother : a person who has a child

 

And nowhere does it say a goddamn thing about marriage.

[eyezonlyii]

 

par·ent

 noun \ˈper-ənt\

: a person who is a father or mother : a person who has a child

 

I don't see what this has to do with anything

[Hanako Ikezawa]

And nowhere does it say a goddamn thing about marriage.

I don't see what this has to do with anything

 

That other person isn't the biological father or mother, or isn't even a step-father or step-mother through marriage. They are not a parent. 

[AresKeith]

 

par·ent

 noun \ˈper-ənt\

: a person who is a father or mother : a person who has a child

 

That other person isn't the biological father or mother, or isn't even a step-father or mother through marriage. They are not a parent. 

 

 

The definition of parent doesn't mention anything about marriage

 

And they don't have to be a biological mother or father or even married to be one

[Grieving Natashina]

So, a parent is a purely biological function and has no impact on raising a kid?  You have to donate genetic material and/or be legally married to be a parent?

 

From webster:

 

Full Definition of PARENT

1

a :  one that begets or brings forth offspring

 

b :  a person who brings up and cares for another

 

http://www.merriam-w...ctionary/parent

 

[sandalisthemaker]

If Eamon's father and his male partner were the ones that raised him and loved him, then that is enough to make them his dads.

[eyezonlyii]

That other person isn't the biological father or mother, or isn't even a step-father or step-mother through marriage. They are not a parent. 

Yes they can be. If Eamon considers the other man his dad, then that man is his dad. There is a distinct difference in being a father and a dad (to me at least). So long as he spent timed with him, cared for him, built him up emotionally and was generally there in his life, he is a dad. 

[Hanako Ikezawa]

So, a parent is a purely biological function and has no impact on raising a kid?  You have to donate genetic material and/or be legally married to be a parent?

Yes, to be a parent you must either be one of the people to biologically create the child or married to one of those two people. The only exception I can think of is adoption, but I highly doubt Eamon is adopted since his father is still alive. 

[Battlebloodmage]

If Eamon's father and his male partner were the ones that raised him and loved him, then that is enough to make them his dads.

I don't know why but the word "partner" always irked me. It makes it sound too formal and like business partner or something. You don't hear that word from straight couples that often but that seems to be exclusively gay in most cases.

[Kantr]

Knight in Shining Armor.

Ahh, I was thinking more complicated meanings

 

On topic: If they raised him, they are his dad's. If one fathered him and then left . It would just be Father (at least to me)

[Sully13]

what if he was a Foundling or Adopted they are still his parents.

[eyezonlyii]

So apparently Martha and Jonathon Kent were not Clark's parents. Good to know.