I'm afraid I don't agree with the notion that we simply must wear a formal military suit because we're a military organization. As others have stated, we are the head of this newly created (or renewed) organization, and we've been given (at least) three different approaches into how we want to lead it.
Cullen and I will not agree very often, I'm sure, because I don't take the blunt military approach--ever. In Civilization V, for example, I play online with friends constantly. I churn out gold for my allies, and I fund them to do the fighting. And in the recently released Beyond Earth, I'm developing my strategy around their improved spy system (compared to V). Those are my favorite paths to victory: commerce and favor, or subterfuge when the former fails me. Rarely do I go straight for the battleground, unless the only other option is one where I lose.
I imagine Josephine will be my greatest asset. I intend on pushing for as much political favor as possible. So to me, I would like my ambitious Inquisitor to impress the nobles with a sense of style that surpasses theirs. I've posted in other threads before, I will play The Grand Game at any opportunity.
The military suit does not give me the impression that I play it well. It's smart looking, and practical. However, if there's a threat, I'd rather boldly flaunt that I'm not afraid by going in the least practical attire. Or, at the very least (since I've given up on a full-fledged ballgown by this point, and merely hope for something with more frills), something like Josephine wears with an easily concealable murder knife folded up in the lace, or sleeves, or stockings.
As I said before, I do think it looks good on a male Inquisitor, even if it lacks fashionable Orlesian trends. I would still probably give a male Inquisitor something more decorative as well, but I don't hate the look on him. But if Leliana's appearance is anything to go by, then it doesn't suit the female Inquisitor I was looking forward to playing. (And as I stated earlier in the thread, if you're happy with the result, I'm very glad for you!)
If BioWare can give us a choice in what we wear (here, and in our hold), so that I can properly reflect the personality I want for her, then I'd be ecstatic. That's all I'm asking for. I stated elsewhere, my character comes first. I love player housing, and I love the customization options we have on Skyhold, but I'm still shocked that in a game that's being praised at every turn for your ability to customize your character in so many fantastic ways so that you're playing your Inquisitor, how are we even still having this discussion about the (lack of) clothing choices?
I haven't lost my excitement for the game by any means. I'm disappointed that I can't customize my character in the areas that matter to me the most, of course, but I'm sure I'll enjoy the game anyway.
In case anyone thinks I'm merely nagging (which is a nasty word to describe genuine concern), BioWare's been my favorite video game developer since I was in middle school, and I've graduated college three years ago. I love their work more than any other company, I always have, and I'm sure I'll love DA:I regardless of my concerns now. But what I love from them is their willingness to look at feedback and at least have a heart-to-heart about it, even if it's along the lines of "That's a great idea, but here's why it wouldn't work..."
I'm sure I'll have more to say, but for now I need to sleep and I'm going to end on that note. Have a good night all.