Your right I was wrong, the story is about The Inquisition
The story being about the Inquisitor implies it's a personal story, that is not the case. Dragon Age 2 was a story about Hawke, a personal story
There wouldn't be another Inquisition without the PC rising up and acting as the Inquisitor, as evidenced by the line "whatever we were before, we are now the Inquisition." So, again, the story is about the Inquisitor. And it's definitely a personal story: the Inquisitor has a unqiue background, the ability to form friendships/rivalries with companions, and the option to pursue romances. Those are all personal elements. Sure, the scope and scale of this story is more grandiose than that of Hawke's, but, from a writer's perspective, this is undeniably a story about the Inquisitor. He/she leads the Inquisition with the goal of restoring order and closing the breach.
Anyway, this is off-topic, largely irrelevant and not really worth arguing about.
Regarding the hair choices: there are only a couple that I can see myself tolerating.

At this point, I can only hope for a DLC with more hairstyles.