I'm just gonna leave this here and pretty much say or do nothing else while the thread is still relatively civil. I know how hot this topic can get.
I don't speak for Sarkeesian and I never would, and I don't know her. But I'm not convinced that she was slamming the entirety of Dragon Age: Origins by posting that clip in her video. I think it's a good possibility that if she is any kind of gamer at all, she loves DA:O but just hates the female City Elf origin.
I mean the female City Elf origin is kind of bleh. You could have been anything. You could have been a cutpurse on the run. You could have been the leader of a merc group, or a grunt in a merc group or I dunno something exciting or interesting.
Intead what are you? A girl about to get married who's kidnapped and threatened with rape.
Now I get that as the MC you get yourself out of that situation, but think about it: if you were a dude would you be put in that situation in the first place?
You can say "Hey, ******, male city elves have their wedding ruined too." Yes, but male city elves aren't dragged off to some dude's castle with the intent of a night's worth of molestation. I don't think anyone can imagine their male city elves would ever be put into that kind of demeaning situation.
And it's a shame because like I said, the female City elf could have an interesting, eclectic origin that had nothing to do with what was going on between her legs and what others wanted to do with it. Plus there'd actually be a reason for the character having martial ability other than "Oh, you're a badass but you happen to be getting married so shush about it"
Hell, that Grey Warden recruit rogue (I forget his name now, Daved? Daveth? Something like that) has a far more interesting Origin than the female City elf AND HE LIVED IN THE SAME CITY.
Compare the female City elf origin to the female Dalish elf Origin. The Dalish elf doesn't have anything happen to her that wouldn't have happened to a dude (or rather, the dude elf doesn't NOT go through anything the female elf does). Imagine how much it would have sucked if the Dalish female elf was... I dunno.... kidnapped by the Dark Spawn so they could use her for breeding purposes. Well maybe that would have been more interesting cuz Darkspawn. 
Now I don't know if that was Sarkeesian's reasoning for putting that DA:O clip in there, nor do I know if she feels the same way I do about Origins as a whole. But that's my two cents anyway.