The message relies on twisted facts and taking situations in games out of context.
Let's talk about DA:O, specifically the city Elf origin that they used a clip from in the Colbert interview. She didn't bother to mention that if you're a female elf you save yourself and the other prisoners. She doesn't mention that Shianni attacks Vaughn to begin with. She doesn't mention that regardless of what Origin you choose, you can murder Vaughn while he's imprisoned and this is seen as a righteous, if not good act.
All that matters to her is that there were women in a game and they were "acted upon".
Why do you mention Shianni attacking Vaughn?
I want proof games cause misogyny. Can anyone step up and prove games cause misogyny? Because that is Anita's implicit accusation. Please do prove this.
You'll never get that. It's in the same vein as saying "video games CAUSE violence".
Games may not CAUSE misogyny, but they may correlate to an increase in misogyny. I'm going to emphasize that I don't know if that's true.
What I do know is true is that there is CORRELATION of video games leading to a to a (temporary) increase in violent thoughts in the people who play them. To say that video games actually contribute to violence is ignoring any of the other myriad of factors that can also lead to violence that do not involve video games.
Moving back to the misogyny topic. If there is a correlation to an increase of misogyny among video game players then we will never be able to show if there's a causal relationship.
To show a causal relationship we would have to isolate children, have them grow up entirely in a laboratory, separate them into groups of who can play video games and those who can not, and then consistently test them on levels of misogynistic thoughts. Which is also how you would show a causal relationship with video games and violence.
The thing being that it would be highly unethical, and I doubt an Institutional Revue Board (or even a university for that matter) would ever allow such a study to occur.