One of the things I really miss is a romance the value of which is higher than that of other goals. Such romances are usually a part of a set story where the romance is the focus.
I wish I could have a LI that I could sit down with and go: ''Hey, it doesn't matter whether we will fight for the mages or the templars, whether we destroy the chantry or promote Andrastian faith, whether we fight against the elder one or join him. What matters is us.''
And then I could hear out the LI about what they want to do, whether it's morally right or wrong, and see if they convince me or I convince them of our further actions. But none of the choices should be a relationship breaker. If both have a solid ground just smile and flip a coin.
I like breaking points. What I don't like is the whole "I'm bothered by this even though I say I'm not" thing.
That said I can agree with the bolded. But preferably there should be some moments that are deal breakers. If only because most people do have lines and I like that in BW's romances. I kind of wish there were more.
Maybe if the story is minor and the issues aren't that central to the LI's ideals I could get the "Meh I'm upset but it's not a dealbreaker." thing. Either that or a very hands off neutral LI (which...could be interesting if done well).
A darker or 'evil' LI can be done, if done intelligently. I tend to dislike evil characters because they are written horribly and are just evil for the sake of being evil without any redeeming qualities. Mustache Twirling character's don't do it. often evil is a synome for psychopath and being a jerk.. The good thing though is that making such a character a romance, can help round them out especially if they are caring and honestly love you regardless of their other vile actions.
Agreed I wasn't looking for a mustache twirling villian. I'm just tired of woobies though. You can be a jerk, have a reason for being a jerk without it having to be a traumatic childhood or past.
That said I want them to be intelligent and manipulative so yeah they'd have goals that don't just boil down to I want to kick puppies. They're just rather ruthless in pursuing said goals and redemption isn't part of their arc.
Stupid evil is just annoying. I look for that in an attack dog not a romance.