Aller au contenu

Photo

Lack of Male Romancable Options?


  • Ce sujet est fermé Ce sujet est fermé
150 réponses à ce sujet

#76
Paul E Dangerously

Paul E Dangerously
  • Members
  • 1 883 messages

straight women complained about the lack of options in me3. so I don't see why straight men can't do the same

 

Because...

 

Y'know, lemme just go get my popcorn and something to drink while I let this play out.

 

(I actually agree that DAI's straight male options are painfully limited, but you're not allowed to complain about that.)


  • l7986, N7 Spectre525 et Muspade aiment ceci

#77
Battlebloodmage

Battlebloodmage
  • Members
  • 8 698 messages

Straight males have the same options as gay males and females. The difference is the position could reverse or on the same playing field as other groups in the next Bioware game, but that couldn't be said about gay males or females. 



#78
Asdrubael Vect

Asdrubael Vect
  • Members
  • 1 507 messages

Going by whoever criteria, male Shep still has more option, agree? Did you complain when straight males get more options? No? 

ME3

Straight male: Ashley(if survives), Tali(if survives), Liara, NPC Kelly(if survives,NPC Diana, NPC Mirandass(if survives die in many cases), NPC Jack(if survives)

Straight female: Garrus(if survives), Kaidan(if survives), NPC Jacob ((f survives cheating on you), NPC Thane (if survives Died), NPC Vega, NPC Javic

Gay male:  Kaidan(if survives), NPC Cortez,

Gay female:  Liara, NPC Samantha, NPC Kelly(if survives), NPC Samara(if survives), NPC Diana 

 

"flirt" options, yes

romances, no

 

i as many does not care about numbers of "flirt" options, especially in swtor or especially in DA what have blooming roses for that an many npc for that

 

i does not care about last dlc after ending of Me3 who was worst then Me2(as  then DA2 was worst than DAO), and i complain a lot about a game who have so much bad stuff exept "not enought flirting options to adding in dlc"



#79
Battlebloodmage

Battlebloodmage
  • Members
  • 8 698 messages

What's the point of that post?


  • boissiere aime ceci

#80
Asdrubael Vect

Asdrubael Vect
  • Members
  • 1 507 messages

What's the point of that post?

lack of romances, not about "flirt" options



#81
Battlebloodmage

Battlebloodmage
  • Members
  • 8 698 messages

In ME3? They still have the most options, counting the flirt or without.



#82
BronzTrooper

BronzTrooper
  • Members
  • 5 020 messages

Considering how MaleShep didn't have the possibility of ending up in a doomed romance while FemShep had 2 of them... yeah, I'd say that FemShep got the short end of the stick.

 

DA:I's options seem to balance that out, even if it was made by a different team.

 

Let's think about it like this:

 

ME series:

 

MaleShep (gay/straight/bi): Ashley, Liara, Tali, Miranda, Jack, Cortez, Kaidan (don't count Kelly and Allers because I don't consider them true LIs)

 

FemShep (les/straight/bi): Kaidan, Liara, Garrus, Thane (ends with his death in ME3), Jacob (cheats on you in ME3), Traynor.  (again, I don't count Kelly and Allers)

 

Considering how 2 of the available romances for FemShep fall apart in ME3, I'd say that technically FemShep gets only 4 LIs while MaleShep gets 7.

 

DA series:

 

Male Warden (gay/straight/bi): Leliana, Morrigan, Zevran.

 

Female Warden (les/straight/bi): Leliana, Zevran, Alistair.

 

m!Hawke (gay/straight/bi): Anders, Fenris, Isabela, Merrill.

 

f!Hawke (les/straight/bi): Anders, Fenris, Isabela, Merrill, Sebastian.

 

m!Inquisitor (gay/straight/bi): Dorian, Iron Bull, Josephine, Cassandra.

 

f!Inquisitor (les/straight/bi): Cullen (human and elf only), Solas (elf only), Sera, Iron Bull, Blackwall, Josephine

 

Overall, male PCs in DA get 11 LIs throughout the series and female PCs get 14.  Only a 3 LI lead, just like with MaleShep in ME.  And since none of the romances are scripted to end regardless (as far as we know with the DA:I LIs), it still seems pretty even.

 

Really, I think people should just get over it.  I self-identify as straight male and I'm definitely not going to complain about straight women getting more LIs than straight men.  Why people continue to whine and moan about it is beyond me.   -_-


  • Semyaza82, karushna5, phantomrachie et 2 autres aiment ceci

#83
Asdrubael Vect

Asdrubael Vect
  • Members
  • 1 507 messages
In ME3? They still have the most options, counting the flirt or without.

 

if we does not count sexuality

 

male: Ashley(if survives), Tali(if survives),Kaidan(if survives) Liara, NPC Cortez,

female: Garrus(if survives), Kaidan(if survives), Liara, NPC Samantha

 

female li-3(1 gay)

male li-3(1 gay)

herm liara-1

 

those who survives no matter what

 

1 gay female

1 gay male

1 liara



#84
Battlebloodmage

Battlebloodmage
  • Members
  • 8 698 messages

if we does not count sexuality

 

male: Ashley(if survives), Tali(if survives),Kaidan(if survives) Liara, NPC Cortez,

female: Garrus(if survives), Kaidan(if survives), Liara, NPC Samantha

 

female li-3

male li-3

herm liara-1

 

those who survives no matter what

 

1 female

1 male

1 liara

But your issue is with straight males, and that's why you complain about the lack of option for them in DAI. They have the most options regardless of how you dice it. 



#85
BronzTrooper

BronzTrooper
  • Members
  • 5 020 messages

if we does not count sexuality

 

male: Ashley(if survives), Tali(if survives),Kaidan(if survives) Liara, NPC Cortez,

female: Garrus(if survives), Kaidan(if survives), Liara, NPC Samantha

 

female li-3(1 gay)

male li-3(1 gay)

herm liara-1

 

those who survives no matter what

 

1 gay female

1 gay male

1 liara

 

Garrus and Tali aren't romanceable in ME3 unless you romanced them in ME2.



#86
Asdrubael Vect

Asdrubael Vect
  • Members
  • 1 507 messages

But your issue is with straight males, and that's why you complain about the lack of option for them in DAI. They have the most options regardless of how you dice it. 

Straight males get:2 andrastian nobles non-mages humans(1 is a templar/seeker)

 

Straight females get: 2 humans(1 templar 1 grey warden), 1 elf apostage mage, 1 kossith qunari spy reaver

 

Gay males get: 1 human exiled mage from tevinter, 1 kosith qunari spy  reaver

 

Gay females get: 1 human andrastian noble, 1 city elf

 

if we does not count of sexuality

males have 4

female have 6

 

female li-3(1 is gay)-2

male li-5(1 is gay)-4

 

 

my point was not about numbers who are laking no matter how you dice, but a lacking of difference-variety of li for straight males who have  andrastian nobles non-mages humans(1 is a templar/seeker)



#87
karushna5

karushna5
  • Members
  • 1 620 messages

I don't think there is anything wrong with straight men wanting more options, being dissapointed with their options, or feeling it is a bit unfair.

 

I find the conversation takes a wrong turn if the guys act like they were cheated based on the companions looks or they feel they deserve more options than everyone. But now that things are more equal, that means straight guys can be dissapointed too.



#88
karushna5

karushna5
  • Members
  • 1 620 messages

female li-3(1 gay)

male li-3(1 gay)

herm liara-1

 

those who survives no matter what

 

1 gay female

1 gay male- Cortez can die.

1 liara



#89
Battlebloodmage

Battlebloodmage
  • Members
  • 8 698 messages

 

Straight males get:2 andrastian nobles non-mages humans(1 is a templar/seeker)

 

Straight females get: 2 humans(1 templar 1 grey warden), 1 elf apostage mage, 1 kossith qunari spy reaver

 

Gay males get: 1 human exiled mage from tevinter, 1 kosith qunari spy  reaver

 

Gay females get: 1 human andrastian noble, 1 city elf

 

if we does not count of sexuality

males have 4

female have 6

 

female li-3(1 is gay)-2

male li-5(1 is gay)-4

 

 

my point was not about numbers who are laking no matter how you dice, but a lacking of difference-variety of li for straight males who have  andrastian nobles non-mages humans(1 is a templar/seeker)

 

Strangely enough, you are in the same exact situation as gay males in ME3. 2 humans with one being NPC, except your option is not copy and paste from someone else. :P



#90
Asdrubael Vect

Asdrubael Vect
  • Members
  • 1 507 messages

Garrus and Tali aren't romanceable in ME3 unless you romanced them in ME2.

male: Ashley(if survives),Kaidan(if survives) Liara, NPC Cortez,

female: , Kaidan(if survives), Liara, NPC Samantha

 

female li-2(1 gay)

male li-2(1 gay)

herm liara-1

 

those who survives no matter what

 

1 gay female

1 gay male

1 liara

 

made a real diffence? nope...at least for me, without tali and garrus its a sh*t


  • boissiere aime ceci

#91
BronzTrooper

BronzTrooper
  • Members
  • 5 020 messages

 

Straight males get:2 andrastian nobles non-mages humans(1 is a templar/seeker)

 

Straight females get: 2 humans(1 templar 1 grey warden), 1 elf apostage mage, 1 kossith qunari spy reaver

 

Gay males get: 1 human exiled mage from tevinter, 1 kosith qunari spy  reaver

 

Gay females get: 1 human andrastian noble, 1 city elf

 

if we does not count of sexuality

males have 4

female have 6

 

female li-3(1 is gay)-2

male li-5(1 is gay)-4

 

 

my point was not about numbers who are laking no matter how you dice, but a lacking of difference-variety of li for straight males who have  andrastian nobles non-mages humans(1 is a templar/seeker)

 

 

...... again, why does it matter what a LI's beliefs are?  It's not like it influences their romance at all.

 

Really, I'm more disappointed that there's a lack of variety for LIs race-wise.  We only get 2 elven LIs and 1 Qunari LI as opposed to 5 human LIs in DA:I.  No dwarven LIs and straight male elven Inquisitors are stuck with human LIs.  Straight male Qunari have the same issue.

 

Overall, we've had 11 human LIs, 4 elven LIs, and 1 Qunari LI in the entire series.  In ME, we got 8 human LIs, 1 quarian, 1 turian, 1 drell, and 1 asari.  I understand the race balancing in DA, but in ME it should be better balanced.


  • Tayah aime ceci

#92
Asdrubael Vect

Asdrubael Vect
  • Members
  • 1 507 messages

Strangely enough, you are in the same exact situation as gay males in ME3. 2 humans with one being NPC, except your option is not copy and paste from someone else. :P

nope because DA is not a Me who even was created by the different team, DA is not a 3 games about human shepard on the same ship and do not have any the same romances in each games as exactly the same companions as shepard

 

we have 2 kingdoms

 

4 races-8heroes(+6 for mages of different races and genders cos they are not a non-mages...4 humans and 10 non-humans types of heroes)

 

many factions to make alliance and to fight with

 

and we have 

 

Straight males get:2 andrastian nobles non-mages humans(1 is a templar/seeker)

 

Straight females get: 2 humans(1 templar 1 grey warden), 1 elf apostage mage, 1 kossith qunari spy reaver

 

Gay males get: 1 human exiled mage from tevinter, 1 kosith qunari spy  reaver

 

Gay females get: 1 human andrastian noble, 1 city elf

 

if we does not count of sexuality

males have 4

female have 6

 

female li-3(1 is gay)-2

male li-5(1 is gay)-4

 

if talking about races it is

 

5 humans, 3 males(1 gay) and 2 females

2 elfs.1 male and 1 female(gay)

1 kossith male

0 dwarf

 

if talking about mages and non-mages it is

 

8 non-mages,2 templars,(1 non-mage gay) 

2 mages, only male mages(1 mage gay)

 

as i said we have lack of females, lack of non-humans,lack of mages, lack of anti-Orlais Chantry/templars persons



#93
boissiere

boissiere
  • Members
  • 388 messages

Garrus and Tali aren't romanceable in ME3 unless you romanced them in ME2.

Nope. if in ME2 you didn't romance any one, you can romance them in ME3. But I agree, without Garrus and Tali, ME3 is a bullshit.

 

I consider myself a loyal person. I'm loyal with every person I like (friends and family for example) and I will never abandon my friends and teamates! I remember that I searched a way of doing the companion quests in the order that enabled me to preserve all companions after the suicide mission and I managed to have no death included the crew! And afterward, when I replayed the game, I always managed to do that!


  • Asdrubael Vect aime ceci

#94
Semyaza82

Semyaza82
  • Members
  • 588 messages

To people complaining without perspective, this post by Allan Schumacher is worth a read. Also while I'm generally in favor of promoting numeracy the lists counting various things are getting a little out of hand. In fairness they become a little more tolerable if you read them in the voice of the Count: "Von straight love interest, two straight interests..."


  • RevilFox aime ceci

#95
Asdrubael Vect

Asdrubael Vect
  • Members
  • 1 507 messages

...... again, why does it matter what a LI's beliefs are?  It's not like it influences their romance at all.

 

Really, I'm more disappointed that there's a lack of variety for LIs race-wise.  We only get 2 elven LIs and 1 Qunari LI as opposed to 5 human LIs in DA:I.  No dwarven LIs and straight male elven Inquisitors are stuck with human LIs.  Straight male Qunari have the same issue.

 

Overall, we've had 11 human LIs, 4 elven LIs, and 1 Qunari LI in the entire series.  In ME, we got 8 human LIs, 1 quarian, 1 turian, 1 drell, and 1 asari.  I understand the race balancing in DA, but in ME it should be better balanced.

1)yes it is, you must do and support what they like and they will be friend and after romance you...there is no gifts and "fenris who support and love blood mage hawke"...beliefs is matter

 

2)i said about that before and now...and as now i have "you have the same number of li than someone"

 

3)in Me we played only as human on the same ship with mostly the same crew...if they does not do balance and playable races in Me 4 i  personaly do not play as another shepard



#96
Eudaemonium

Eudaemonium
  • Members
  • 3 548 messages

1)yes it is, you must do and support what they like and they will be friend and after romance you...there is no gifts and "fenris who support and love blood mage hawke"...beliefs is matter

 

At the very least in DA2 the bolded comment is not *remotely* true.

 

Rivalmance all the way, yeah.


  • RevilFox aime ceci

#97
Catche Jagger

Catche Jagger
  • Members
  • 461 messages

Though I would have liked a 2/4/2 split, I'm fine with the presented options. We've only had two options in the previous games, I don't see why it's bad now. However, I do think it's fine for people to voice their discontent respectfully.

However, I think it is rather silly to compare this situation to Mass Effect in terms of fairness, as I am not really a fan of that series, yet I still play Dragon Age. Mass Effect and Dragon Age are not, nor have they ever been the same game series.


  • karushna5 et (Disgusted noise.) aiment ceci

#98
Asdrubael Vect

Asdrubael Vect
  • Members
  • 1 507 messages

At the very least in DA2 the bolded comment is not *remotely* true.

 

Rivalmance all the way, yeah.

rivaly friendship and romace what was in DA2 is a bdsm, masochism

 

 it was stupid and not making any sense



#99
phantomrachie

phantomrachie
  • Members
  • 1 176 messages

straight women complained about the lack of options in me3. so I don't see why straight men can't do the same
 

 

Men can totally do the same, but many people who are on the forum have grown weary of these threads for a couple of reasons.

 

  • Normally they are about some complaining how unattractive the straight male options are
  • When women and the LGBT  community complained about the lack of LIs for them in previous games, they were told to shut up, stop whining, stop trying to push our social justice agenda etc. 

After a couple of games of hearing this, it becomes grating to hear it (over & over again, without a hint of irony) from straight men

 

There is also never an acknowledgement that straight men have the same number of LIs as gay men & women in DA:I, some people who post on these threads act like straight men are being singled out for discrimination, rather than just not having any extra LIs this time.

 

By all means, complain away, get your point across, but it would be more effective if the point wasn't almost always tied up with critiquing how a LI looks, or mild to extreme homophobia. 


  • Leo, Tayah, Dirthamen et 9 autres aiment ceci

#100
BronzTrooper

BronzTrooper
  • Members
  • 5 020 messages

1)yes it is, you must do and support what they like and they will be friend and after romance you...there is no gifts and "fenris who support and love blood mage hawke"...beliefs is matter

 

2)i said about that before and now...and as now i have you "have the same number of li than somes"

 

3)in Me we played only as human on the same ship with mostly the same crew...if they does not do balance and playable races in Me 4 i  personaly do not play as another shepard

 

1) You don't have to support everything they believe in.  You just have to do and say things that they approve of.  For example: you could not like Cassandra's past as a Seeker, but you could make choices that she approves of to make up the difference.

 

2) The way you're restricting the LIs seems to be based on your preferences, which aren't shared by everyone.

 

3) Being restricted to playing as a human shouldn't restrict the amount of non-human LIs.  In a game like DA:I where you have the ability to pick your race, race-gating is fine and understandable, but in ME where you can only play as a human the amount of non-human LIs should be more balanced out.