You're trying to assess the validity of the appearance in a game of one character based on 'real life' population,
with the argument, 'there are so few trans people in real life, if you encounter one in Thedas they must be 'shoved in''?
These are simply characters in a fantasy RPG world, I struggle to understand what 'shoved in' means and why the inclusion of this character would be an issue?
The real life statistics are only for reference. Thedas is certainly not bound by them. However, when including something so far out of the norm, not only in the real world but which has not been seen or referenced in the fictional one, and, honestly, looking at Bioware's recent history, the question naturally arises if this is included because it fits the setting and there is a compelling story to be told or if it's there as a "look how progressive we are" appeal.
Elven gods are a tiny percentage of the population in Thedas, but that didn't stop us from meeting at least two of them. Proportions of characters you meet =/= global proportions. It's not an SRS.
Edit: In fact, I'm going to use that ratio from now on. # of actual gods > # of characters that are trans.
Don't be silly. Elven gods make sense within the setting and it makes sense that the hero of this type of story would meet them. They weren't random encounters, were they? I was questioning if a transsexual person fit this setting.
If they want to have a woman living as a man in order to fight that's not an issue, personally though I hated how they changed the qunari just for that one character.
I lover Sten's speeches about women fighters, they were great culture shock comedy moments. It's a pity they were retconned so Gaider could preach about LGBT issues.
Wait, is she just acting like a man to do the things men do, did she shift into men's roles in society, or did she actually get some sort of surgery or magical transformation to become a man? It was made to sound like the latter when it was brought up, which is why I questioned it. Again, I haven't played Inquisition, so I don't know and only go off what people say here.
You've misunderstood the Qun. I can't find my post cogent post on this issue but this is a sufficient answer for now:
The Arishok saying he lost no Qunari is not really "No True Scotsman." He's using the word Qunari to mean followers of the Qun, not a race. The Tal-Vashoth have left the Qun and therefore are not Qunari.