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[Fast Jimmy]

Don't try to.

 

I feel as long as two people understand what the concept of love, or at least, sexual/physical attraction is, and are mature enough, they can get along fine as long as they understand the biological/social/legal consequences.

 

Too bad one of the conditions (maturity) is always lacking in at least ONE partner xD

 

Nah... let go of all the maturity and logic. Just let yourself be totally unguarded, unprotected and what happens, happens.

 

Yeah, you get kicked in the emotional and metaphysical nads. A bunch. Hard.

 

 

But that one time it works? Well... one time is all you need.

[Isichar]

Nah... let go of all the maturity and logic. Just let yourself be totally unguarded, unprotected and what happens, happens.

 

Yeah, you get kicked in the emotional and metaphysical nads. A bunch. Hard.

 

 

But that one time it works? Well... one time is all you need.

 

I guess the worst part, and best part depending on how you want to look at it is how easily the feeling of love blows through all of your defenses. You can go half your life alone and get use to it, and then a day later feel so strongly about someone that you don't know what to do with yourself.

 

There is no maturity or logic when it comes to love. It's just a matter of being honest with yourself about who you are and how you feel, and I think that comes more naturally to people then they realize.

 

Then again what do I know? I'm still a bit too young to pretend like I actually know what I'm talking about anyways.

[smoke and mirrors]

I was going to say sure who hasn`t but by some of these posts apparently not everyone has   So yes i have a long time ago but i found someone better

[Sylentmana]

I had mine broken about 6 months back when I caught my boyfriend of about 2 years with another woman trying to swallow each others' heads, and in a public place no less.

[mousestalker]

Oh I have plenty of reasons to hate him but let's just leave it at that, he is suffering plenty right now because I left ; )

I have had revenge fantasies, but they have all involved showing the other person how splendid my life has become without them. "You know how you criticized me for X? Here's someone who loves me for that. Ha!"

I've never actually said "Ha!" out loud in such a situation, but I have thought it really hard.

[mousestalker]

Nah... let go of all the maturity and logic. Just let yourself be totally unguarded, unprotected and what happens, happens.
 
Yeah, you get kicked in the emotional and metaphysical nads. A bunch. Hard.
 
 
But that one time it works? Well... one time is all you need.

Also closing yourself off from love isn't living, it's just existing.

To be alive means being open to being hurt.

[Cyonan]

Yep, I got the emotional kick in the nads. Complete with running start and steel toed boot.

 

Did the "close yourself off from love" thing for a while, and back to trying the whole loving thing again these days.

[Cheech 2.0]

I'm sure everyone has been heartbroken for one reason or another. Relationships end, people move on that's just how life works. For me not being able to say things while I had the chance keeps me up at night. When someone passes way before their time it's a different kind of heartbreak, one that never really heals. Always tell those close to you how much you love them, you never know if you'll get that chance again. Life kicks your ass, but that's what living is we endure.

[Nattfare]

I'm sure everyone has been heartbroken for one reason or another. Relationships end, people move on that's just how life works. For me not being able to say things while I had the chance keeps me up at night. When someone passes way before their time it's a different kind of heartbreak, one that never really heals. Always tell those close to you how much you love them, you never know if you'll get that chance again. Life kicks your ass, but that's what living is we endure.

 

I'm sorry for your loss.

 

This one strikes home a bit too close personally. 

[Riven326]

Yep, I got the emotional kick in the nads. Complete with running start and steel toed boot.

 

Did the "close yourself off from love" thing for a while, and back to trying the whole loving thing again these days.

I had to wear steel toe boots on my last job. They got wet during a rain storm and rusted out on me. $40 down the drain just like that. And you think you've got problems.

[Isichar]

I had to wear steel toe boots on my last job. They got wet during a rain storm and rusted out on me. $40 down the drain just like that. And you think you've got problems.

That's what you get for buying cheap steel toes.

[The Poster]

I had a crush on this girl since the seventh grade. During our sophomore year in high school, her best friend comes up to me, and she tells me that the girl likes me, and she's just waiting for me to confess. In fact, the day in question was the best day to do it because she just broke up with her boyfriend and she's moved on. Being the naive knobhead I am, I followed her to where the girl was, and I just put it all out there. She tore me down, and basically told me it's appalling that someone like me would even have the nerves to have feelings for her, and if I looked at her in a lustful way and she caught me, then she'd send some guys to teach me some manners.

 

I don't really trust people after that...

[Riven326]

I had a crush on this girl since the seventh grade. During our sophomore year in high school, her best friend comes up to me, and she tells me that the girl likes me, and she's just waiting for me to confess. In fact, the day in question was the best day to do it because she just broke up with her boyfriend and she's moved on. Being the naive knobhead I am, I followed her to where the girl was, and I just put it all out there. She tore me down, and basically told me it's appalling that someone like me would even have the nerves to have feelings for her, and if I looked at her in a lustful way and she caught me, then she'd send some guys to teach me some manners.

 

I don't really trust people after that...

Someone like you? What was that supposed to mean?

[Fishy]

yay 

[Sylentmana]

I had a crush on this girl since the seventh grade. During our sophomore year in high school, her best friend comes up to me, and she tells me that the girl likes me, and she's just waiting for me to confess. In fact, the day in question was the best day to do it because she just broke up with her boyfriend and she's moved on. Being the naive knobhead I am, I followed her to where the girl was, and I just put it all out there. She tore me down, and basically told me it's appalling that someone like me would even have the nerves to have feelings for her, and if I looked at her in a lustful way and she caught me, then she'd send some guys to teach me some manners.

 

I don't really trust people after that...

Well, now you know what kind of person she is, so really, you're better off.

[The Poster]

Someone like you? What was that supposed to mean?

 

Someone who didn't look good, didn't have a lot of friends and didn't have the best grasp of social graces, basically.

 

 

Well, now you know what kind of person she is, so really, you're better off.

 

True. It also helped me become less naive and idealistic. Made me think of what the other person probably thinks more than I did before. That's why I don't really crush on people anymore.

[Gorthaur the Cruel]

No, I haven't. Honestly, I was kind of a scumbag to women when I was younger.

 

When I was about ten I lived by a girl my age. First time we meet she asked If we could play together and I was mean to her. About two years later she moved away and I felt bad about always teasing and being mean to her.

 

Then in Middle School a pretty popular blonde liked me, but I was kind of a jerk to her. I made it a point of ignoring her and her friends for the longest time, finally one day she came up to me and I blew her off, and after that she wouldn't so much as look at me. 

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