Op said that preload might not happen at all for standard edition.
There is also NO reason to have some be able to preload before others. We all paid for the game, didn't steal it. Treat us as customer not as second class because we we realized we are not going to be nickel and dimed and pay $10 extra (20% more) for some in game items. OOO a new armor, 1 out of 150 in game, a shiny throne or a new mount.
The point is the ability to preload at all, I can preload 2 hours before release because my internet is that fast.
In my Origin is just "coming soon". Part of the reason to PREorder is so you can PREload, it's the PRErogative I expect for giving them a sale upfront.
If it wasn't listed as a benefit of pre-ordering, it is unreasonable to expect it.
But by the time I commented in the thread, it had been established that regular pre-orders could preload, so the only reason for somplaint at that point was the timing, and that's no reason at all. That was my point.
I see the benefit of pre-loading. But I also have no objection to people being able to get extra privileges by paying for them. That's how commerce works.