I was told that I needed 15 secrets, 15 trophies, and 15 viands for a successful meeting with the Divine at the end of the game. So those seem to be the end goal. The easiest (and resource-light) way to do this is to jack freedom, dignity, or prosperity up to 100, and then buy one by sacrificing half of that resource. Repeat forever.
Anything else appears to be too complicated with too little feedback and not enough reward for the risk.
This is entire game seems to be a textbook case in poor learnability design.
You only need 15 total between the three, although more can't hurt. And there are alternate ways to go about getting resources. Cases (which you can start to get during the second market day) pretty much bleed secrets. Hunting for trophies only takes 4 or 5 actions once you get your woods-wise up to about 50 (so in theory you can get nearly all the items you need in one day if you just hunt for them all). Really the game is not hard, just get your stats up early and it makes everything else easier.
'Optional'. huh? One either buys those damn points or wastes his\her time on the 'resting'. I can't possibly imagine a less attractive way to ask for my money.
You know you could spend 20 actions in the morning, spend 20 more over lunch, and then 20 more before you go to bed. Gets the majority of the points and you really aren't wasting your time by doing stuff in between playing.
What are all the Counsellors, Lovers, Accomplices, and Bodyguards?
I hired the Silent Hunter as a Bodyguard and I know the Dashing Outlaw can be one too.
I'm about to hire the Smilling Guildmistress as my Counsellor. The Kindly Knight is also an option. There's the Dowager and the Abbess. (almost forgot them).
I've heard the Wayward Bard is a Lover. (Is that it?)
And the Accomplices I know about so far is the Well-Read Pig-Farmer and the dwarven Purveyor of Teas (who I want to hire).
Counselors- Smiling Guildmistress, Kindly Knight, Abbess, Dowager, Baron, and Dour Lordship
Bodyguard- Silent Hunter and Dashing Outlaw
Lover- Bard, Abbess(option is only available once she is your counselor)
Accomplice- Pig Farmer, Purveryor, Outlaw(Outlaw id bugged for one or both of her options)