I'm sure those kids fresh of the farm in Origins who liked the Tower better than their old homes, or the noble level education, royal positions, high ranks, positions in the Chantry and their military, cushiony life, and magical powers were all just educated into these people to love from birth. Make bless 'em.
In education, I agree with you. Mages should be educated, but that does not mitigate the rest.
Royal positions or high ranks? They're not allowed to hold a position of power. Royal Enchanter is basically Court Jester with better clothes
They're seen as weapons to be deployed. They're not seen as human by the Chantry. Just watch the War Council with King Cailin in Origins, the Revered Mother practically bites Uldred's head off when he offers more help (to be fair, it's Uldred, but this is before he's revealed as a bad guy)
Coushiny life. I will quote, again from Origins: "...the Templars watching, always watching". No privacy, no freedom to make your own life choices. You fall in love and the Templars notice? That gets used against you
How is that not justification for dissent, even rebellion, if you do more than scratch the surface?