Not realling saying Reapers are right. Nor am I saying that the ending was good, because it was handled poorly. On my first playthrough, before the revised ending just kinda left my numb. When the revised ending came out and the other DLC, specificly Leviathian, it did not really add anything that was not already implied. That basically, at some point in the distant past, a apex civilization fell prey to its own hubris, created AI's to stop AI's from killing there slaves; all the while believing they were above the possibility of falling prey to the very event they were trying to prevent. The DLC really just enumerated and made that point more obvious.
The whole "no matter my choice I get the same ending, just different light show," is bunk. Beleive me there is many things wrong with the ending, but the light show is an irrelevant point. Quick aside, my first shepard, my true shepard, was a street kid from Earth that had to make his own way. He found the military and liked the order and structure. In short he was a bad-ass with a heart of gold. There were just some lines that he would not cross; he could push a man out a window, but not commit genocide (bugs are still creepy). So when presented with the three choices I really had to think about it.
Set aside the whole light show argument and think about it like this.
If you do the control/paragon route, you are giving Shepard the power of a God. Maybe not, but he would certinatly become the most powerful human ever. Do you trust yourself with that kind of power. I didn't.
Do you just destroy the Reapers/renegade route? If you do Legions side quest, it becomes clear that despite the Quarrians justified fear, they (Quarrians) were jerks. The Qurrians come off as paraniod, while the Geth come off as more reasonable. Sort of. I worked hard to bring peace to the two factions. Also EDI. So could I sacrifice any entire species (genocide) and a good friend (EDI). I could not do that either.
The third choice, synthesis. Could I really fundemntaly alter the very DNA of every being in the Galaxy and eevery being to come. On the very first play through, before the revised edition, this is what I choose. It would sve the most lives and bring peace.
After the revised ending came out, I played through again and choose the forth ending and this is at the core of my complaint against the ending.
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