DAO was a little male-ish, and DA2 was a little extreme to the other side. In fairness, getting it 'right' is not going to be an easy task simply because there are so many things to take into account for females and then trying to convert them to 3D animations. I am one of those that walks foot in front of foot and that is fine so long as I don't run, while my wife has a more balanced gate. Of course she can kick a soccer ball with out falling down and me, not so much.
I doubt that there will ever be consensus on this (if my daughter will let me finish this thought), because most of us do not see ourselves walking from behind. And while I enjoy watching others walk, some do walk like men and some do have extreme hip movements. Finding the mean is probably not going to be easy.
As far as running it should be as easy as converting Florence Griffith-Joyner's strides to 3D and I doubt if there are many women that would object.