I'd love to play a mage but the moment Bethany dies and I'm stuck with Carver I start to resent the playthrough. I mean Bethany is so nice and great to have around whereas Carver just feels like a nuisance, I won't judge too harshly because all I know is that after the Expedition he becomes a Templar if you don't take him with you (so if you're pro-mage he's gonna ****** you off even more?). Any of you see redeeming qualities about him? Maybe it'll encourage me to give him a chance.
I use to hate Carver now I'm at the point where I can understand his POV, and his position in the packing order of the family. I can understand where hes coming from... A father who is an apostate and spending more time with his mage children rather than his non mage son, Carver. To that respects I do not blame him for showing jealously and hate towards my mage Hawke.
I always make him stay at home during the expedition (Someone has to take care of mother, and had I died mother would still have a son left rather than to be childless) thus becoming a Templar. It is rather ironic that his job is now hunting apostates like my character. I can't hate him for doing this because Carver did tried to get a job at being a Kirkwall guard, but Aveline kept interfering therefor preventing him from being a guard.
Carver: Did you approve my application?
Aveline: I can't make you a guard, Carver.
Carver: We were both soldiers. Why won't they take me?
Aveline: I was an officer. And I follow orders.
Carver: (Laughs) No you don't.
Aveline: I also think of others before myself. You seem tired of that, and that's dangerous.
Carver: Just when it's not my choice. You told them not to take me, didn't you?
Aveline: Yes.
To that respects I blame Aveline for Carver being a Templar.. She was very spiteful to Carver, thinking that shes better than him. Apparently she forgot who brought her into the city.
At the very end... when Meredith truly showed herself was one of the most badass moments... Carver man up and stood in front of me with his sword facing Meredith, and that also included Cullen. Carver became the hero that he always wanted to be.
Had I made Carver into a Grey warden I would of shorten his lifespan. I don't think I could do that to my brother.