Soooo sten considered female warden a Aqun-Athlok? If you get his approval high.
While it could mean that they are transgendered, you have to remember that Qunari society is rather restrictive, in that females "don't fight." They generally aren't considered warriors and Sten was even confused by a female Warden who was a warrior. "Aqun-Athlok" could just mean that Krem is a woman who fights, a generally "male" thing.
Edit: Side note, did they change the name of the qunari language from "Qunlat" to "Qunandar?"
Quoted you two cuz this is a good lead-in. Time for in-depth analysis!
So, I don't always approve of BWare's writing style, however I can tell that those who do the writing are very intelligent and well-versed in various theories and discourses. So, thought I'd offer some of my own insight into what I can tell so far, given my background in feminist/queer theory.
First off, 'queer' is not sexual orientation, it specifiates 'other', little more. This is important, because this thread is already beginning to question where sexuality fits into all of this. That could be part of it, but the realization that 'queer' doesn't necessitate 'gay' (in the real world, there are many straight men and women who identify as 'queer') informs the subject matter, being that transgenderism is often associated with 'queerness'. Moving on, recent trans/queer theories seeking to disassemble the meaning of sex/gender have begun using the terms 'male' and 'female' as roles, with biology being an indeterminate factor in said roles (and thus gender). Meaning, 'male' and 'female' are not biological, but rather identifiers for certain socially-defined traits, preconceptions and expectations.
We see this in our world in a variety of ways I won't get into because it would risk devolving this thread into a pit of misogyny and homophobia, but more to the point, this seems to unfold in Thedas as well, particularly among the Qunari, as the posts I quoted suggests. If 'male' and 'female' are strictly defined roles - for instance, male = warrior, provider, etc., female = nurturer, caretaker, etc. - then it is indeed possible (perhaps even likely) that the Qun sees transgenderism as an active role one takes against those socially determined via biology.
It might sound like I'm throwing a wrench into the potential for a truly trans character in Dragon Age, but there's more to it than that, I think. This suggests the Qun has a more expansive, more universal outlook on gender roles and more specifically, the ability to exist beyond them; in a sense, 'gender' becomes a mere performance, a mask worn depending on the situation that warrants it. It's, in fact, incredibly liberating, and very exciting to see explored in a video game. Bravo, Bware.
This is why it's art!