@StreetMagic: You change other people through forward thinking.
Claiming you want equality - but you also want to be separate and have your own thing others aren't welcome to be part of - is hypocrisy.
The problem with the Dalish - is that the elves of Arlathan didn't roll around in wagons with albino deer and live hunter gatherer lifestyles. So they're not at all embracing something ancient - they've made something new and call it something ancient.
In D&D terms... the elves of Thedas were once High Elves... the Dalish are wood elves who think the ancient elves were always wood elves.
And if a minority such as that truly wanted a land of their own again - you don't achieve that with your own bigotry, traditionalism and isolationism. Nobody builds a nation that way...ever. For them to achieve anything - they need to meet the powers of "now" on common ground.
What's worse - is that the player base seems to want an elven nation when the Dalish clearly don't. It has been VERY clear that the Dalish hardly communicate and that because of this - the various groups have become SO different that one of them is supposedly radically different in this story. You won't build anything that way.
It's as if the Native Americans could just appeal to the United States about how earth loving and harmonious a people they were... and the US would just part like the Red Sea and make room for a new nation of indigenous people. It's not going to happen... ever (that the world is a worse place for losing our tribal peoples is not actually part of the equation).