The side quests in DAI take it to the next level though. They threw in bunch of boring and tedious mmo style quests and then nerfed the xp, so that the game feels like a grind. It's almost like this game is their prototype for a Dragon Age mmo.
I have a real hard time understanding how anyone thinks using one ability and then spamming the left mouse button while you wait for your mana/stamina to recharge is good combat. It's like a cross between console and tactical combat, that does neither very well.
I have never played an MMO long enough to get a feel for them, mostly because I can't stand all the fake drama bull**** that people try to pull in social style games. It annoys me to no end. Therefore, I cannot give an objective comparison. I will say, however, that nothing yet has stood out to me as being any worse than any other top rated RPG series that are out or are coming out.
Regarding your statement on combat - Mass Effect 2 and 3 follow a similar formula where you have to wait for everything to recharge for a certain time before you can use another ability. I prefer that style. It adds a small (though sometimes crucial) tactical element to a fast paced action sequence.
This game seems designed to be more of an A-RPG in the vein of ME2, which was a console-first game, than a traditional RPG typically played on computers with massive amounts of controls that can only be done on a keyboard. I'm OK with that - ME2 remains the most enjoyable game I've played in at least six years in general, if not the best written overall - though the main storyline through ME2 and 3 was actually fairly decent as far as games go. But my focus is different now. I can't spend hours getting my controls JUST RIGHT given my general lack of massive amounts of free time, and I'm no longer a hard core gamer like I was ten years ago.
Mouse/Keyboard controls can be rebound with relative ease. I don't get why people have no trouble spending 2-3 HOURS getting their CHARACTER looking just right - and will EVEN restart several hours in if they don't like even one little thing about their creation, but get upset when they have to spend 20 minutes rebinding their controls.