Try honesty. If all you want is to be friends then honesty should tell you if friendship will work or not and if her only interest in you was a relationship she will tell you to 'bugger off'. One why or an other, you are better off not saying anything like, "Its not you; Its me." If you don't do this the girl C "will" find out and you will be lonely for a long time.
you overestimate his maturity.
Guest_Master of Gundams_*
Women are a complicated thing. They're not prizes or sex objects (Unless you're at hustler) and they can either be the love of your life or be pure hell.
When considering a girl, learn...
-Where she lives.
-Her interests.
-Her mental outlook.
-Is something wrong with her?
-Is she emo or a wrist slitter?
-Her family and how she was treated.
-Her habits.
-Turn ons and turn offs.
-Is she really the one you want to invest in?
-Is she loyal?
-Is she fickle?
-Does she really care about you?
-Is she crazy?
-How she treats others.
-Is she hug and love or stay away from me? (You want the former).
-Is she interested?
And so on and so forth. You're first objective isn't to get laid, as fun as it may be, most women and girls don't like to be seen as sexual objects.
You also don't want to be too obsessed with her or around her too much. I learned this the hard way.
-And most of all, if things go south, can you let go?
Gorgeous dog problems: I have a gorgeous dog, a purebreed Yellow Lab of a fine pedigree. He is supposed to be my wing man and help break the ice to meet the ladies but he steals all the attention and I am an afterthought. How do I fix this?
Women are a complicated thing. They're not prizes or sex objects (Unless you're at hustler) and they can either be the love of your life or be pure hell.
When considering a girl, learn...
-Where she lives.
-Her interests.
-Her mental outlook.
-Is something wrong with her?
-Is she emo or a wrist slitter?
-Her family and how she was treated.
-Her habits.
-Turn ons and turn offs.
-Is she really the one you want to invest in?
-Is she loyal?
-Is she fickle?
-Does she really care about you?
-Is she crazy?
-How she treats others.
-Is she hug and love or stay away from me? (You want the former).
-Is she interested?
And so on and so forth. You're first objective isn't to get laid, as fun as it may be, most women and girls don't like to be seen as sexual objects.
You also don't want to be too obsessed with her or around her too much. I learned this the hard way.
-And most of all, if things go south, can you let go?
You're overanalyzing the situation. You ask a bunch of questions to which there are already answers, or are stupid to ask.
When considering a girl, learn...
-Where she lives. Don't ever request or imply a desire to visit her home. Only contemplate this if she brings it up on her own accord. Even so, it isn't anything you should enthusiastically pursue. It tends to make women defensive or suspicious. Also, if she is eager to get you in her home when you barely know each other, she is often compensating for something terrible.
-Her interests. Generally not yours.
-Her mental outlook. She's a bitty nutty, generally egocentric, and only rational when it suits her purposes. It's hard to go wrong with these assumptions.
-Is something wrong with her? YES. There always is.
-Is she emo or a wrist slitter? This is a legit entry level question/concern. Legit Question #1
-Her family and how she was treated. This is only relevant if she is 'damaged.' Otherwise, it doesn't make too much a difference. The truth will present itself in time, and often you will be unable to learn this off the bat.
-Her habits. Another legit entry level question/concern. Legit Question #2.
-Turn ons and turn offs. Turn ons: Spending your money doing things you loathe Turn offs: Your friends, things you enjoy
-Is she really the one you want to invest in? No. You will only want to invent in her if she proves herself to you. NEVER invest in a woman that either does not feel she has to prove herself or does not want to prove herself to you.
-Is she loyal? No. She will only be loyal if it suits her purposes, or she believes it will suit her purposes in the near future.
-Is she fickle? Yes.
-Does she really care about you? No. She only cares about herself, and if she has them, her children. She will only care about you if you have proved yourself to her, which she may never give you an opportunity to do.
-Is she crazy? Yes.
-How she treats others. Legit Question/Concern #3
-Is she hug and love or stay away from me? (You want the former). No, not really. Clingy women are often annoying, weak-willed, and useless. You don't want to partner yourself with someone who needs to be led by the hand in everything.
-Is she interested? Probably not. It tends to go this way: You truly desire them and they do not want you, or they want you and you do not want them. Sad as it sounds, if you ever truly commit, odds are that person will either be a drawn out 'rebound' or 'backup plan.'
And so on and so forth. You're first objective isn't to get laid, as fun as it may be, most women and girls don't like to be seen as sexual objects.
You also don't want to be too obsessed with her or around her too much. I learned this the hard way. You were too easy for her bro. If she thinks she can leave you and get you back with no effort later if she desires, there is NO reason for her not to leave you. Love is all about optimization.
-And most of all, if things go south, can you let go? Yes. Letting go is easy, especially if you are a dude. The tricky part is letting go and moving on.
You're overanalyzing the situation. You ask a bunch of questions to which there are already answers, or are stupid to ask.
When considering a girl, learn...
-Where she lives. Don't ever request or imply a desire to visit her home. Only contemplate this if she brings it up on her own accord. Even so, it isn't anything you should enthusiastically pursue. It tends to make women defensive or suspicious. Also, if she is eager to get you in her home when you barely know each other, she is often compensating for something terrible.
-Her interests. Generally not yours.
-Her mental outlook. She's a bitty nutty, generally egocentric, and only rational when it suits her purposes. It's hard to go wrong with these assumptions.
-Is something wrong with her? YES. There always is.
-Is she emo or a wrist slitter? This is a legit entry level question/concern. Legit Question #1
-Her family and how she was treated. This is only relevant if she is 'damaged.' Otherwise, it doesn't make too much a difference. The truth will present itself in time, and often you will be unable to learn this off the bat.
-Her habits. Another legit entry level question/concern. Legit Question #2.
-Turn ons and turn offs. Turn ons: Spending your money doing things you loathe Turn offs: Your friends, things you enjoy
-Is she really the one you want to invest in? No. You will only want to invent in her if she proves herself to you. NEVER invest in a woman that either does not feel she has to prove herself or does not want to prove herself to you.
-Is she loyal? No. She will only be loyal if it suits her purposes, or she believes it will suit her purposes in the near future.
-Is she fickle? Yes.
-Does she really care about you? No. She only cares about herself, and if she has them, her children. She will only care about you if you have proved yourself to her, which she may never give you an opportunity to do.
-Is she crazy? Yes.
-How she treats others. Legit Question/Concern #3
-Is she hug and love or stay away from me? (You want the former). No, not really. Clingy women are often annoying, weak-willed, and useless. You don't want to partner yourself with someone who needs to be led by the hand in everything.
-Is she interested? Probably not. It tends to go this way: You truly desire them and they do not want you, or they want you and you do not want them. Sad as it sounds, if you ever truly commit, odds are that person will either be a drawn out 'rebound' or 'backup plan.'
And so on and so forth. You're first objective isn't to get laid, as fun as it may be, most women and girls don't like to be seen as sexual objects.
You also don't want to be too obsessed with her or around her too much. I learned this the hard way. You were too easy for her bro. If she thinks she can leave you and get you back with no effort later if she desires, there is NO reason for her not to leave you. Love is all about optimization.
-And most of all, if things go south, can you let go? Yes. Letting go is easy, especially if you are a dude. The tricky part is letting go and moving on.
Women are a complicated thing. They're not prizes or sex objects (Unless you're at hustler) and they can either be the love of your life or be pure hell.
When considering a girl, learn...
-Where she lives.
-Her interests.
-Her mental outlook.
-Is something wrong with her?
-Is she emo or a wrist slitter?
-Her family and how she was treated.
-Her habits.
-Turn ons and turn offs.
-Is she really the one you want to invest in?
-Is she loyal?
-Is she fickle?
-Does she really care about you?
-Is she crazy?
-How she treats others.
-Is she hug and love or stay away from me? (You want the former).
-Is she interested?
And so on and so forth. You're first objective isn't to get laid, as fun as it may be, most women and girls don't like to be seen as sexual objects.
You also don't want to be too obsessed with her or around her too much. I learned this the hard way.
-And most of all, if things go south, can you let go?
Generally speaking don't trust random people you have never met over the internet, for all kinds of things, but especially not your romance situation.
Generally speaking don't trust random people you have never met over the internet, for all kinds of things, but especially not your romance situation.
You can trust me though. 
Lol you guys are taking this way too in depth.
I have no problem getting dates, etc.
What I'm trying to do is stay single until I find the right woman, if that exists.
From what I've experienced, I'd rather just stay single for the rest of my life if there isn't something different out there.
For yourself or them?
Your chances of finding a quality woman are actually lower than .1%. You're looking for the "perfect woman" and shockingly they don't exist outside of fiction.
No one is perfect, you're chasing an impossibility. Prepare yourself for disappointment.
Lol psychological issues for me. I see you have jokes.
Surely there has to be some sort of semi-attractive - attractive women out there that want a symbiotic relationship. Am I delusional in thinking this?
Guest_TrillClinton_*
Lol psychological issues for me. I see you have jokes.
Surely there has to be some sort of semi-attractive - attractive women out there that want a symbiotic relationship. Am I delusional in thinking this?
Lol you guys are taking this way too in depth.
I have no problem getting dates, etc.
What I'm trying to do is stay single until I find the right woman, if that exists.
From what I've experienced, I'd rather just stay single for the rest of my life if there isn't something different out there.
It must be hard being so shallow. Whats it like to have your reproductive organ have a higher IQ than you?
Lol psychological issues for me. I see you have jokes.
And that's where the narcissism becomes apparent.
Surely there has to be some sort of semi-attractive - attractive women out there that want a symbiotic relationship.
They do, just not with you (aha a rhyme!) since it isn't anything close to symbiotic with you (another rhyme, I'm on a roll).
Am I delusional in thinking this?
Yes.
Disturbing lack of OneWomanArmy in this thread.
Gorgeous dog problems: I have a gorgeous dog, a purebreed Yellow Lab of a fine pedigree. He is supposed to be my wing man and help break the ice to meet the ladies but he steals all the attention and I am an afterthought. How do I fix this?
Woman prefer it doggy style. Not much you can do about that.
Came here for gorgeous men. Left disappointed.
Me too LMAO!! 
What I'm trying to do is stay single until I find the right woman, if that exists.
Oh, so do you still want those two girls to be your friends? Or do you just want to "friendzone" them?
Lol you guys are taking this way too in depth.
I have no problem getting dates, etc.
What I'm trying to do is stay single until I find the right woman, if that exists.
From what I've experienced, I'd rather just stay single for the rest of my life if there isn't something different out there.
Gorgeous dog problems: I have a gorgeous dog, a purebreed Yellow Lab of a fine pedigree. He is supposed to be my wing man and help break the ice to meet the ladies but he steals all the attention and I am an afterthought. How do I fix this?
Fight to the death?
We are not so fortunate...
Guest_mikeucrazy_*
Heres what my ugly arse knows.Ill let this video speak me
bunz's threads are always great for a good laugh.
And that's where the narcissism becomes apparent.
They do, just not with you (aha a rhyme!) since it isn't anything close to symbiotic with you (another rhyme, I'm on a roll).
Yes.
It must be hard being so shallow. Whats it like to have your reproductive organ have a higher IQ than you?
It's actually quite easy. Being part of the majority tends to have its perks. How do you manage it?
Lol dont ever smarten up Bunz, one of these days youll be an old man perving on girls who are old enough to be your kids. And we'll all still be laughing at how shallow you are.
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