Yes, my ideal is 100% spineless proof masculinity, that is square jaws, big noses, small eyes and wide lips put on wide, wide shoulders adorned with a proper muscularity. I'm not surprised nor I mind you being with Phyreblade. Women aquire proper taste for men in their 30s. It has been proved that girls prefer smooth, lady like boys.
You make me laugh! I'm 40 years-old and a veteran of the US Army, actually. It's how I met my husband, when we were both overseas. I have spent 20 years of my life surrounded by men of all shapes and sizes, decked out in uniforms galore and handling weapons that looked bigger and scarier than most people can possibly begin to wrap their head around; I deployed three times, mind you. Nothing like being one of 18 females in a base camp of 800 Soldiers. The men practically paraded themselves, lol.
Funniest thing I ever saw in my life? Trained with this guy I swear must've been one of the models for the Qunari in Dragon Age. He was pushing 7 feet and nearly as broad, I kid you not. They had to take two uniforms apart to insert fabric enough to sew into a special-fitted uniform just for him, dead serious! So the funniest thing I ever saw was that guy -- sweetest guy I ever knew -- and he panicked during NBC training and had to be dragged back into the chamber by no less than 5 non-commissioned officers. Shoulda heard those Sergeants, all grunting and cursing and swearing up a storm! I laughed for days!
Hottest thing I ever saw in my life? Went up to Grafenwoehr, Germany for some weapons training with my unit during one particularly hard winter. So there we were in the snow and muck, trailing along with convoys of various military vehicles, and this one guy climbs up into the turret of one humvee to handle the 50 Cal. He's lean and lithe, almost skinny -- he could run the 2 miles during our PT tests in 13 minutes flat and ate like a horse, mind you -- and he's up in that turret with the machine gun blazing away and the targets just disintegrating in a long line in front of us. Dang noise was like thunder and he's smoothly raking the field in a cloud of smelly smoke and fire and I'm standing there thinking, "Holy crap, he looks bada**."
Look, to each his own. I figure that's why Bioware's allowed for this amazing concept called "choice", where you can make your character look like and shaped just the way you want and someone else can create a character wildly different. Just so both people are happy enough, shrug. Like I said, I tried the mod out and just didn't prefer it when all was said and done. It's all good.
And weren't you insistent earlier in this thread that it was ONLY the broken-arms issue you were asking Bioware to change, when it came to the default model for male elves in DA?