Yes, let us practice censorship ala 1984. People should be allowed to voice their opinions. If there are so many straight males who either complain or straight up say that they do not want to romance anyone in the game, shouldn't someone look into why that is ?
If that is because the women available do not match to our standards, shouldn't that opinion be allowed to expressed instead of shaming ?
This is all you're saying:
"How dare society shame me - me, the victim - for insisting that we continue to push the ideal of physical perfection that has plagued women for over 100 years? That is immoral and our voices must be heard."
You have to weigh the moralities. (It's like a Dragon Age quest decision. Pick the lesser of two evils.)
Choices:
1. Be immoral by using entertainment media to perpetuate the controversial standards of beauty/femininity shoved down women's collective throats.**
or
2. Be immoral by ignoring the men who wish to perpetuate it (wishing so, because they've been socially conditioned to expect these unrealistic standards to persist).
**In my opinion? It's time to deprogram the mentality that expects this to continue. Straight men, who find average/attractive women ugly because they do not meet the ideal standard of perfection, are the victims. They are not the victims of the embodiments who choose to ignore their pleas for the over-beautifying of women to continue. No, they are the victims of brainwashing by the media and other such infrastructures. It's time to open your eyes and stop being victims. It's time to look at women differently.
I know it is not easy, and for that I genuinely feel bad for you. I know that as you read this, you view me as some sort of adversary - an enemy. But I don't know how else to get this message across. If you're looking for a solution, you should probably do some research to solve this problem. Study women's psychology and women's issues. Understand the perspective of the gender that attracts you to begin with. Otherwise you will continue to face disappointment and feel like a victim.
Modifié par Dax, 21 novembre 2014 - 09:52 .