Boohoo - somehow I'm not feeling sorry for you when we (female gamers) have gotten the short end of the stick in the past. FYI, Cassandra is actually a cool person if you bother to speak with her (she seems cool to me based on our chats thus far), which I have been doing. Even if I'm not romancing a companion, I do like to get to know them.
As a female player, I'm pretty happy about the male LI options. Even Solas has proven to be interesting, and I would consider a romance with him if I had a female elf. See, even though he's not conventionally handsome, he has turned out to be a pretty interesting guy (I play mages and find what he says about the Fade to be intriguing).
Heck, I even kind of like Viv as a person now despite my initial impressions of her - and I am perfectly willing to admit it - because she has an interesting personality and made some good points during our first two extended conversations. Mind you, I'm still in favor of mage freedom, but I think we can mostly get along.
Now get over yourself and try actually talking to your potential LIs to see if there's more to them than your pathetically shallow impressions of them before you dismiss them outright.
*rolleyes to the infinite power*