... woooooow okay at first I though this whole thread was hilarious, I got a few chuckles. And even though I generally only RP gay males, I do like the idea of another female elven companion. And I would probably romance her for the sake of dialogue.
But I realize - and accept - that it's not going to happen in this game because Bioware said they won't.
OP, you can complain and demand all you want about wanting it in THIS game, but you're wasting your time. And yes, I'm well aware that you're going to come up with some sort of supremacist overly polite reply on how it's not wasting your time, because you're too stubborn to listen to anyone.
It almost sounds like you're letting this stuff rule your life. If it's not this, it's the male elven arms (I do agree though, they need to be fixed as soon as Bioware can make it possible, just not ohmygodRIGHTNOW I CAN'T DO ANYTHING ELSE BUT COMPLAIN UNTIL THEN). C'mon... it's just PIXELS, man. Frikkin' pixels on the screen. Not the end of the world.
And while I was amused at first, now you're just creeping me out. I do hope that the way your Inquisitor wants to treat his pixel elven girlfriend like he owns her is limited to RP stuff, and not... anything else. As a woman, the way you talk about her and what you would like to see in your pixel conquest (including the whole cutting off fingers thing because how dare she show interest in someone else) is downright creepy. Good thing it's just fantasy then I suppose, knock yourself out.
I suppose it's a good thing your Inquisitor and mine (male elf) will never have a chance to meet, because mine would probably end up punching yours in the d*ck just to shut him up before gallivanting off with Dorian and Bull 