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[Linkenski]

Her standard reply in Skyhold is "What do you need, my friend?"

If I screwed it up, then where did I go wrong? I avoided 1 or 2 flirt options when they seemed out of place, but otherwise I have been doing them and her approval rate should be kinda high.

[Emeriick]

I don't think you can "screw" a romance up unless you pick certain options that clearly say in bold letters "If you pick this option you end any  chance of romancing cassandra". Just like you I avoided some flirt options but still got the romance, so you should be fine.

[Linkenski]

But I'm confused because in the scene where she asks you about your motivations, I selected the flirt option and she goes "you haven't been paying attention" and it kinda feels like she turns me down. Is romance still possible after this or is it too late?

[The Jackal]

I romanced her. What I can tell you. Even if the flirt option seems out of place. You should pick it. I mean every single time you can. It's a special option to let her know that you liked her. I romanced her, and finished the game. I would advise you to talk to her every chance you get, to bump up your approval. The higher the approval the more special romance options you get.

 

To answer your question. I'm not sure. You should keep trying to talk to her, and clicking the romance option if its there. I plan to romance someone else on my second play through. 

[Emeriick]

But I'm confused because in the scene where she asks you about your motivations, I selected the flirt option and she goes "you haven't been paying attention" and it kinda feels like she turns me down. Is romance still possible after this or is it too late?

 

I'm not sure. It's possible, I suppose, that if her approval rating is low enough she may act negative to your advances but that has never been the case thus far in my experience with the game. I still think the romance is possible.

[OldSwede]

Uh oh! I am not sure at all, and I hope for your sake that my guess is wrong --- and I haven't played the game myself (and nor would I romance Cassandra. I'm a woman and prefer playing as a female) but I have been following a guy who is streaming his play-through, and he was afraid that he had blown his chances with Cass. It turned out he could get good approval just before/or rather while ending up at Skyhold -- and I hate to say it, but she has totally different reaction toward him than you've experienced.

I certainly hope for your sake that it wasn't those times you didn't reply with the flirt option.

Keeping my finger's crossed. It's a great dialog and reaction she has, when he talked to her right after arriving at Skyhold. You deserve to experience it.

[Ogunb]

If she didn't confront with you about flirts, you should be fine. She called me 'friend' too, and... you know the rest.

[BlacJAC74]

I think BioWare need to strike a happy medium with the romance arc.  In ME, you were shoehorned into some romances (or you had to act like a douche and out of character to avoid them) and in DA, don't pick a random dialogue option and you blow your chances. When i was going after the Leliana achievement on the 360, I had to restart and then reroll a save to an earlier save as I kept missing a very non specific dialogue option here n there.

[scootshoot]

But I'm confused because in the scene where she asks you about your motivations, I selected the flirt option and she goes "you haven't been paying attention" and it kinda feels like she turns me down. Is romance still possible after this or is it too late?

Sounds like you hosed. Your main is going to be a virgin for life

[Linkenski]

But people who romanced her. In the scene when you can say "you've been leading me" how did she react? Is it a part of the romance that she turns you down in that scene?

[Ailith Tycane]

You're playing as a man right? lol 

[Linkenski]

Yes, male human. No gender bug

[The Jackal]

If you are really interested about this romance. You should check out the screen shots in this section. I posted a spoiler screen shot of what happens when you actually get to romance her. It is  a special quest you have to complete first. Once you have high enough approval ratings. 

[Merengues 1945]

Care not as this is normal when she ran out of things to say. Keep going into the story and at some point she'll talk to you in some balcony and ask you if you love her. (I believe this went after giving her the new issue of Shields and Swords). You say yes and then you commit to the relationship.

Unless you come to a point where the radial dialogue says "This will end romance with..." you're still on tracks.

[godModeAlpha]

Stuffed here too. Even after doing her seeker quest and she's calling friend?

Not sure what happened but I suspect it's because I said are we still friends! During the scene by the window. At this point I had not done her personal quest but somehow this scene played out early.

[lady8jane]

But people who romanced her. In the scene when you can say "you've been leading me" how did she react? Is it a part of the romance that she turns you down in that scene?

 

She said the same to my character and I had plenty of romance options after that. Just be patient.

 

And what's bad about being called friend? That's not an indicator at all.

[godModeAlpha]

She said the same to my character and I had plenty of romance options after that. Just be patient.

And what's bad about being called friend? That's not an indicator at all.

Could you Romance her even after this dialogue, would be a miracle to get out of the friend zone

[lady8jane]

I can still flirt with her from time to time, yes.

[godModeAlpha]

I can still flirt with her from time to time, yes.

Good stuff. I do hope I can still Romance her on my first play through. Second is for Sera

[azanimefan]

But people who romanced her. In the scene when you can say "you've been leading me" how did she react? Is it a part of the romance that she turns you down in that scene?

 

 

I romanced her.  hardly really talked to her with my human mage.  oh sure i'd talk to her if i was passing by, but really all i did was sellect all the romance dialogue options, and make varrick write the end to that stupid romance sword and shields for her (even let varrick make fun of her about it), kept sellecting romance options, woo'ed her on her woo'ing quest, and made sweet sweet love.  i never even did her character quest.  I had already knocked boots with her before her character quest even came up.  heck i had knocked boots with her before finishing off the wardens or saving the empress.  

[Sugram84]

i remember one option, cut scene, where i chose, i mite not want the things u want, she talked about chantry & mages & stuff, as a mage it felt wrong to chose other choices, but i wonder can that screw up the end result? i wonder cause that line is a double edged sword depends how u say it when u say it & for what

 

at the mission where u say the Empress she refused to dance with me, is it normal? 

 

at the beginning i skipped 1 flirt option cause she responded badly to it, i guess that's also important to know when & where

 

sometimes i just wonder about all that stuff

 

but to answer ur question, so far she say's my friend to all, at least until a certain point, unless she is bugged, cause usually u get a option where u set ur relationship by choosing my friend or something else or flirt, i found that out with Sera & Varrik, well friend option u have with all that how i know that u will sett the relationship at one point, unless some chars are bugged

 

o man the giving her the book scene was hilarious, Varric teased her like no end LOL

 

EDIT:

 

i cleared out all opened areas before doing the Empress court mission, the ball, that & meting with the wardens & the red Templar's mission above that was left, new i know the are when  i go to desert with Hawk, J was with me at the end scene after saving Empress, it is said that the one with u in the end depends on ur romance option, but i never flirted with her, i guess she is default romance option who will make move on u first if u have not set ur romance wit any1 else before Wicked eye's and wicked hearts mission (i did have a feeling that she was not just concerned about me turning that scene, i sensed that she was interested in my char), in my case i think the issue is that i did not completed the mission what Hawk gave me, to find hes warden friend, in my game it Loghain, i figured he mite be useful in future, after meeting hawk's friend & then the desert, after that Casandra gave her companion quest to me & i think that the trigger, i mean after that my char's relationship with her goes farther, i have max approval with her, how i know? well i tested it with dialogue & load back

 

i have Elf mage, knight-enchanter is freaking Tank, if u manage to hit ur barrier is on & no1 can brake it, slightly better then Tanks guard, but make one mistake & ur barrier is down & u get hurt if not killed, to any1 who wants to play easier, it has duration + awry hit shortens the duration, but as long as u hit barrier stays on

 

i edited to give info

 

when i finish this, next is ranger Elf & romance will be J, J should be enough, from that all should know who i mean, cause there is only one J in ur inner circle that u can romance

 

EDIT2:

 

after that mission with Hawk, finding Loghain & then next mission to & i got her mission & after that romance mission about reading poetry to her, main mission are the trigger's that trigger  the option to push ur relationship further if u have flirted with her enough

[MikalBlitzkrieg]

I really am hoping I have not ruined my romance options for Cassandra also. There is one option where she asks you "what are your motivations?" Instead of choosing the romace option that gives you Cassandra slightly disapproves, I choose the upper right option that gives you Cassandra approves because I felt that scince I was still early in game, I need more approval first.

[Amirit]

But I'm confused because in the scene where she asks you about your motivations, I selected the flirt option and she goes "you haven't been paying attention" and it kinda feels like she turns me down. Is romance still possible after this or is it too late?

 

Easy to test - go th Josephine (Dorian, IB) and try to start another romance. If she\he says something "I heard you are taken" or "you have to break your another involvement first", you are fine.