Goes both ways;
1) Bioware do seem to be pushing the whole 'look at us, we are diverse, he's gay, she's gay, you're gay, everyone's gay!!! woo!"
2) Homophobia and the reaction to it is stupid, since same-sex relationships, or rather, same-sex activities were common place throughout society and generally accepted throughout the world until we hit the more classical modern times, when the pendulum swung the other way and for whatever reason it became a 'taboo' and we now have to fight a rather daft battle for it to swing back in 'favour' - incidentally I'm happy with the forward-thinking this entails, equality for equality's sake but I don't think it justifies point 1.
On that note, the more historically aware you are of homosexuality being accepted in most forms, the less the need to pander to it and/or react to it. (It was common in African tribes, the Native Americans, Europe, Asia - particularly weird one is Greece and Japan both actually found no fault in adult men taking an adolescent boy for that purpose, given that they're both on opposite sides of the world)
So anyway I suppose what I'm trying to say is; I don't have an issue with the homosexuality or gender identity issues arising in the game, or any game for that matter, but I do think a world based on high-fantasy, low technology (well for the purposes of swords and sticks) should be focusing, maybe, on LGBT issues of that time era rather than modern-day tales, because, generally that leads to less (or maybe more) values dissonance and potential for 'pandering' cries.