I have gone back to do some chatting with Cole, I did not turn him human (don't know if that matters).
He says a lot of things , that I feel reference Solas.
Some of them, really get my mine twisted.
Others, are pretty direct.
It took me a bit to realize that he was trying to warn/ease my pain. As this is what he does.
But, it clicked when he said "I can talk to you".
First he mentions Solas by his translated name, Pride.
He says (not exact quote but all the same) "He helps me, leads me to/with the light, he calls himself Pride".
So that's no biggie, right? We all know Solas' compassion.
However, Cole also says, "He does not mean it, he does not know he is dead".
He also says something to the effect of "she is his [heart], but he cannot stop it"
This one has left my gut in knots.
It's part of what leads me to feel, that Solas is a vessel for the Wolf, because as we all know,
spending any amount of time in the Fade can be dangerous, he started studying the old gods,
and found himself used by them.
Flemeth saves him, by transferring herself, otherwise he'd die.
I wonder, if this could mean that, Solas is trapped in the Fade, as many from the past.
Another note, Solas also tells Cassandra "I don't believe they are /or in Gods" when she's askes about what he believes in. Curious.
In the DLC, the inquisitor and party have to get back into the Fade, to get Solas out; lead by Cole of course, because Cole feels the need to repay Solas for all the guidance he gave him....
This is where a choice comes, kill him (for those who hate him) or save him, for love.
Also a cool thing, if you did go romance... (Heavy breathing) then maybe she still dreams him, and a scene could show her at their break up spot missing him. This is where Cole comes in and says...
He still reaches for you... Or something like that ... and the story begins, in whatever glorious way Weekes weaves it.
*Passes over jar of tears*
I love Cole and Solas dammit!
Sorry for my long posts.