She isn't the one I have to convince. Unless we go for a DLC; however, they weren't entirely opposed to a sex scene if the resources had been present.
Actually, Bioware is the one you have to convince. The few people angry that they don't get to see Josie naked are not even close and never will be close to the lash out Bioware has gotten about other things, and those things weren't changed because Bioware wants to tell the stories that Bioware wants to tell. So if they want to do another romance like Josephines, which more people have expressed a want than those who don't want, they will do it.
1. Again, completely unequal. You have your whole experience, we have a neutered one.
2. Because people are dangerous even when you can fight them with magic? Maybe he's a former templar. Maybe he's a Red Templar and the stakes suddenly shoot up.
3. Then let it be different here, if this romance was already supposed to be different.
1) Both sides have to use their imagination to think what happened after the scenes fade to black. It is equal. Plus those who want sex have had it as an unavoidable part in every romance for years. That is what was unequal. If you want equal, then there should be three more LIs in DAI who are left ambiguous whether they have sex or not.
2) Except he wasn't. Also he was the one being challenged so he gets to pick how the duel goes.
3) The romance is already different, so there is no reason to make it more different. Especially when what you suggest would make it less different from the others.
Now what CAN be said about this whole ordeal, is that choosing Josephine specifically as the romance to appeal to asexuals, might not have been completely considerate of the writers. Josephine is half of the available romances for both hetero males, and homosexual females.
If they had to "experiment" with the romances, they could probably have done so with male npc romance option camp, since there are a far larger sample size there, than in the opposite camp.
That being said, there are no skin off our teeth either way at the end of the day. If you don't like a romance, dont go for it. If you don't like ANY of the romances, then don't go for any. Simple really, when you think about it.
She wasn't chosen specifically to appeal to asexuals. They are happy that is a byproduct, but that wasn't the reason they did it. Plus again there are millions of heterosexual and bisexual men or bisexual and homosexual women who don't have sex in their relationships for various reasons. It's for them as much as it is asexuals or demisexuals.