I know little about the male romances, but I don't know if I'd really like the way Iron Bull was handled either.
And I don't think that this is fine, or at least I don't think that the way this was forced on us is. Especially when the only other option for lesbians is so horrible.
But don't you understand that the type of sexual relationship that you are describing as your preference would be "forced" on people who don't like that type, right? Pretty much all of the other DA relationships attend to the type of relationship that you are talking about, so why not allow others to get their preferences too?
Yeah, except heteroys are left out in the cold.
Incorrect. Assuming you mean hetero males, you have the choice between Cassandra, a sexual romance, and Josephine, a non-sexual romance. You aren't left out in the cold. You have options. You might not like them, but you have them.