This was my thought exacts. While many people have errors and things like that, they will be resolved in time. In terms of gameplay, the reviews have been good and a great many people really like this game. I am sorry OP you are not enjoying the game.
Reviews were way too positive. I now question the reviewers' experience with DAO+DA2 as a comparison base.
I'm 90hrs in, mostly exploring the countryside which this game has in abundance. So I have played the game. I do NOT agree with the reviews. The game is buggy, unpolished, miniscule fonts that console players using a large 40"+ TV can't read, game controls that are totaly foreign to players from DAO and DA2 and give me cramps in my left hand, tactics which is a micromangement nightmare (except for the grognards, they love this stuff), a tac-cam that is pretty much useless. I can go on.
No, don't talk to me about the positive reviews. Yes, some love it. I love it, but it has oh.. so many warts.