Wrong Warden.

My warden was a Dalish woman. I double checked the Keep. It's the correct world state. I even got a quest to make alliances with my warden and the quest synopsis calls her a "she."

But...............

Morrigan keeps calling the warden/The Hero of Fereldan a "he" and she also said that he is the father of her son. She also says they were in love.

o.O

I've never even played a male warden. Not once.