You misunderstand, i don't dislike Cassandra or Scribles. my issue is that Straight Men have 2 options, Gay men have 2 options, gay women have 2 options but Straight women have 4. Its unbalanced. Back in DAO Men had 2 and Women had 2.
Well, it's not exactly 4 options.
There aren't four options for all female inquisitors. Female Qunari and dwarves can only romance 2 men: Iron Bull or Blackwall. Female humans can romance 3 men: Cullen (not a companion), Iron Bull, or Blackwall.
Female elves have their pick of the litter. They can romance 4 men: Solas (there is no sex scene), Cullen (not a companion), Iron Bull, or Blackwall.
So really, if you guys want to get upset about anything, don't get upset at straight female players being pampered with options. Get upset with straight female elves having more options. (Bisexual female elves have the most options, by the way. NOT the heterosexual ones.) Though, assuming you've beaten the game and you know the context of the plot, DAI is very "elf-centric." Solas was not originally a romance option, but the writers decided that with the extra year of dev time, they wanted to write him in strictly for a female Dalish. ::shrug:: It makes sense if you play a female Dalish. Through that romance arc, you learn more about Solas, the truth of what vallaslin represents, and the truth behind so called Dalish gods. Also there is no sex scene that takes place with Solas' brief romance arc. It's purely cerebral.
Edit: I strongly recommend everyone to do at least one female Dalish playthrough and romance Solas in order to get that content. It's very important to the plot - namely the cliffhanger ending.