You can't compare Skyrim to DAI. So stop it everyone. They are totally different games. Not to mention, on PC, Skyrim can be almost any game you want with the right mods. There are over 30,000 mods. Throw in the 10,000 "adult" mods and that explains why Skyrim is STILL in the top 10 on Steam.
This game (DAI) is great. And deserves much praise. Yes, there are serious control issues on PC (I won't play a melee class until they are fixed) but outside of that this game is amazing. And will be a blockbuster. And hopefully BW/EA will pump out DLC's quickly.
Now when Witcher 3 comes out in Feb, I think it's fair to compare Witch and DAI. So we'll see.
By the way, you can be gay in Skyrim. In fact, sexuality is sort of ignored in the base Skyrim (even with the Hearthfire DLC) game. But with the right mods you can be what you want. You wanna be a girl selling her "services" on the street in front of Whiterun? There's a mod for that.
DAI is a single player RPG that plays VERY much like a MMO. It's not like DAO or 2 or any other BW game in it's play-style. It's more like ESO, LOTRO, or Warcraft. You don't like it? You want a more story-driven game, wait till Feb and buy Witcher 3. DAI would've been patched by then (I hope so!) and then we can argue which game's play-style is better.