Gosh you guys are hard to keep up with between sleep and school and work...who needs those anyway....
There are too many things I want to respond to to go back and dig up all the quotes, but I'm gonn a have to add my own

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to the Jacob romance scene. "the priiiiiiize"...wth? Ugh, and the way he kind of grabs her ass on the way out of the room. It IS kind of insulting that that is the only scene with the big L-word in it. But that's not to say I wish it had been in the others -- the truth is it didn't belong in any of them. IMO, at least, none of the 3 relationships are developed enough to use that phrase sincerely (which then makes you wonder about Jacob just using it to manipulate Shepard like some ppl pointed out; I don't think he was though, I think Bioware just threw it in there for...who knows why). If anything Garrus' relationship would be most ripe for the word "love," but as we've all sort of agreed by now, I don't think he would say it out loud at that point yet anyway. Thane's was actually handled pretty well, there's one conversation between the two where one of them says something like "I know it's not love yet, we haven't known each other long enough, but there's definitely something between us."
I agree it's a shame that Jacob's romance is so crappy, for those that weren't interested in an alien LI. I don't mean to hate on Jacob but I have a hard time finding anything exciting about his character -- is there something, anything, that gives him a little depth if you romance him? I still haven't been able to bring myself to actually go down that road (only for the fun of breaking up with him). What's weird is, my first playthrough, I'm convinced it must have been bugged somehow, because I remember thinking "why does everyone keep complaining about what a **** Shepard is around him?" because I was never able to romance him even a little bit. It was weird. Maybe I accidentally did something early on. Yet in other playthroughs I clearly saw what everyone else did, how in the beginning it literally doesn't give you a way to NOT flirt with him. Ah well.
And as awful and shallow as the Jacob romance is, does the fact that it's clearly just "on hold" if you reject him mean that Bioware is expecting/planning to make it a big part of ME3? That's fine for those that like him, but it better not be at the expense of the alien LI plots

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I am really glad that I started spending time on this thread, because getting to read all your thoughtful analyses on Garrus' romance has made me feel so much better and appreciative of it than I did at first (initially felt very shortchanged. Now I am glad to see how superior it is). So thanks guys

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