I love that I can rely on this thread to provide a good read.
I admit with shame that DA:O was the first Bioware game I had ever played. I loved it so much that once Steam was rolling with their crazy sales, I did not hesitate to purchase as many BW games as possible for (at the time) a college student with no job to speak of. I started to work my way through the games, playing Jade Empire and Mass Effect at the same time. As January came around, though, Mass Effect took priority and I was more than happy to do so considering how interested I was in the story and characters. I had the biggest girl-crush on Tali (OH GAWD YES TELL ME MORE ABOUT YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM BABY); was endlessly amused by "Shepard." "Wrex."; and could not get enough of that Space Cowboy Cop Raptor's voice.
ANYWAY
I have yet to get to KOTOR so I have no opinions on Carth.
My general disdain for Kaidan's romance probably stems from being spoiled with DA:O. Everyone except for Morrigan managed to make my heart flutter (Morrigan's friendship turned out to have this effect and I love her for it). I decided to pursue Kaidan in ME1 for the achievement because I liked his voice and...he was kind of handsome. Little did I know just how much I would hate choosing him over Ashley. I felt a bond with Ashley and was actually bawling after Virmire, screaming "It's all my fault! I killed her!" into my pillow. So, by Ilos...to be honest, I was just looking for some comfort and threw my Shepard at Kaidan even though his lines lacked the effect of Alistair's, Leliana's, and Zevran's sweet nuthins. He nearly redeemed himself with his little speech about how "this, us, will never happen again" but it was ultimately overshadowed by his
bizarre response regardless of whether you call him a sweet heart or insinuate your up for a quick round two.
Needless to say, I added Garrus and Tali to my list of if-I-could-I-would right before Sten and just after Oghren. Hm...I guess I like me some strange.
Then here came ME2 and Garrus surprising me with his overall awesomeness and actually making me swoon. I was initially going to try and not "cheat" on Kaidan mostly because I thought the picture on the desk was cute, but quite frankly Garrus is irresistible.