Harm me in what way? why did those people have to die? what was going to happen? she caused the ambush those people are dead because of her and i was put in danger BECAUSE OF HER. yes the guy plotting was going to do something, she doesn't even know what, just "i heard you'd want him dead"
second ambush was a result of her march which she assured would be the end of it.
you don't get to take action and wipe your hands of the result, this is why you plan things you figure things out you sit down and decide the best course of action. because any action YOU take has consequences and YOU'RE responsible for those actions.
the noble readily puts up his hand as you say, admits his part and wants to work toward a mutual outcome. I'm there to help work it out. as well, but sera? all she wants to do is take action and not think about the side effects. that puts people in danger whether you want to admit it or not.
the second ambush happened because she stuck her nose into affairs without thinking (and again i'm partly to blame for listening to her) those people are dead because of the actions we took. which is why she should have thought things through to begin with. who are the players involved what is the likely outcome? etc, etc.
no ones excusing the nobles actions, he's guilty as are you as is sera. you all got those people killed. all to teach a noble a lesson. well done bravo.
Look man, I get it, you didn't understand what happened. It's alright, really, people miss the simplest stuff all the time. Sera's explained it to you, you didn't get it, I don't know why I thought you might get it here. You don't understand what happened in either scenario, so it's automatically somebody else's fault. That's cool, now that I have an established baseline for communication, I'll know to keep things as simple as possible.
Sera found out through some of her "friends" that the noble in your first ambush was looking to take you out. She sends you a message telling you to find some red things so that you can make a pre-emptive strike against him. When you meet him, you find out that he was indeed planning to take you out, then Sera puts an arrow in his face.
Now, let's break down how this went down off screen in game, so that you're clear: Some of the people that work for the noble that gets an arrow to his face, overhear that he's planning to take out the Herald of Andraste. (just for the sake of clarity here, because we evidently have to have everything explained, it doesn't matter if you believe you are or not, they believe)so they tip the local Jenny, who just happens to be Sera. Why? Because they don't want to see anything happen to the Herald. They leave clues around for the Herald to find, and Sera tells you where they are. But Rob, why not just send a note with that intel then? Because, if they do that, it can be traced back to them, and bang, they're dead. You run around Val Royeaux and gather the intel, then go to the location indicated by all the clues. You get there only to find that there is indeed a noble planning to take you out. Sera puts an arrow in his face by way of introduction to who she is, and what she brings to the table. She did not set up an ambush, unless, of course, you want to say she set up the noble, in which case, we were the ambush, not the targets of it.
The second ambush was set up by the noble. He tells us as much in conversation after he finds out "Oh crap, somebody that can actually fight showed up, I'd better try to save my ass". He set the whole thing up, to get to Sera. He then kills the "friend" that, ostensibly led us to the situation in the first place, in order to cover up his duplicity. He is, after all, the kind of noble that Sera hates, the one that uses his servants as cannon fodder so he can get away. I get that you find this an acceptable strategy, she doesn't, and frankly, my Inquisitor didn't either. If she hadn't killed him, I would have.
Is there anything you're not clear on here? Are you starting to understand that despite your hatred, she's not responsible for these dilemmas, other than she cost that second noble some money by protecting her people? Am I supposed to feel bad for Cory every time I thwart one of his schemes? I didn't see that in the Inquisition runners manual, what page is that on, so I can look it up for future reference?