I'd rather not get into real world religion bashing. My point has been diluted by people's personal feelings and agenda's towards Christianity. Change Christianity to 'Buddhism'. The point is she's disrespectful, dismissive, aggressive and militant towards her partner over even a discussion of differing ideologies. There's no talking. No respect. That's it. I'd like to think if I was confronted with a similar situation I'd be able to at least have a calm discussion with the person I'm supposed to love and I find Sera's reaction uncivilized and repugnant. Like MANY situations in the game, she jumps the gun and goes straight into hostility. Not to mention Sera IS RELIGIOUS herself. She's not making some socially aware moral stand about the dangers of religious thinking.
...and yet, here you are, doing the same thing: I don't like using that religion as an example, because personal feeling and agenda, so change it to something else. This is exactly the dilemma that people are both put in and putting Sera in, with the only difference being that Sera can't come to the forums and lay out her side. Can you honestly sit here and tell me that some of the people complaining about these issues with Sera aren't being dismissive, aggressive and militant about it?
In the previous thread, I had one poster that was constantly attacking my personal life in an attempt to "win" the discussion. In this thread, I've been told that I need to pull my head out of the sand and see all the proof that Sera was wrong. This, after asking for this alleged proof. I'll note that the "proof" they offered in that reply was literally "pull your head out of the sand". But you're right about one thing, she's not making a social statement about religion, she's making a statement about her beliefs, and she's willing to sacrifice the relationship over how seriously she takes it. It doesn't matter if it's a plea, or an ultimatum, it's Sera saying "This is the way I see things, this is the way you see things, and those views are incompatible". Now, we can sit out here all day and try to pretend that they're not, but the fact is that more blood has been spilled in the name of God than for any other reason. It doesn't matter what God it is, that's just the simple truth. Is it stupid? I'd say so, but I don't have a problem co-existing with other religious beliefs.
The problem is, I don't rule the world, I rule my roost. If someone is going to profess beliefs that I can't get behind, and granted, in our society, it's going to be really hard to get a similar situation, it's time to make a choice. I had to leave a girl friend that was "Born Again", because the person that she was reborn to wasn't the person that I initially met. The differences were irreconcilable, and so, I left. Better that than to spend hours a day arguing about the merits of one religion over another. Which is, I might add, where we were when I left. Is it harsh? You bet, but she's not going to change back to the person she was, and I'm not willing to change to suit her.