ugh as some other people have mentioned the process of softening her is beyond idiotic. First we need to tell her not to kill a traitor who betrayed them, had many people killed, and likely to have even more. It makes sense if we could interrogate him, an option the game pretends to give us, only to come across like a gullible fool after the second prompt where we have a bunch of options between telling her ideals are important, you should always like what you do, and if you dont its not right
to our spymaster can do better
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See the thing about our men not being expendable? they are no more expendable then we are. I mean our inq has been in far more danger anybody else , yet we are the ones doing the heavy work and putting ourselves in harms way, even more so than our troops, so i told her, that yes, our men know the risks, because we -all- do. Cassandra, leli and cullen have sacrificed a lot to make the inquisition happen, and before that were warriors risking their lives on a daily basis. All of our companions were involved in danger, and considered "expendable" even before they were part of the inqusition. Then killing that cow of a chantry sister makes perfect sense, as she tried to lure us into a trap, lied to leliana who was a friend to her once, and then was going to run of to report her findings if you let her go. The game doesnt even give you the option to capture and interrogate her which tbh would make the most sense. I just find playing a damn gullible idiot to soften Leli too much tbh, and im pretty ruthless when it comes to traitors myself.
Leliana is not a psychopath, she is someone who is capable of compartmentalizing, in that she keeps two very separate parts of herself very well, the ruthless and the compassionate. If you talk to her, she wants to fight for the rights of others. During wicked hearts, she wants to hand power over to briala so that she can make life better for the elves, she likes that you freed the mages because she believes in them having rights too, and finally her goal as divine is for the chantry to stop brutalizing the elves, belittling the dwarves and being inclusive to everyone, even mages. Even David Gaider himself said that the biggest factors in regards to making her divine involve putting Briala in power and freeing the mages(not just from alexuis, but making them equal allies) She has a great deal of compassion, even as "ultra" hardened leliana. The difference is in how she goes about fighting for these ideals. I just think its fascinating how so many people cling to the idea that human psychology can neatly be placed into boxes of black and white. There are many examples, and psychological experiments that show we are all capable of a great deal of darkness to one degree or another, depending on the circumstances, even people who did compassionate things before.
what does softened Leliana say at the end, after her final quest with the box from the divine? I always end up hardening her.