He became my favorite male video game character ever. Favorite video game character overall, extremely likely.
I've gotten attached to a lot of characters throughout all of the years that I've played video games but I don't think I've gotten as absurdly attached to one as I have with him. I had settled on him being my romance way long before his character details were even released (I'm into elves...) and I was always waiting for information on him. Because of the strong demeanor of the previous male elves, I was interested in how things would play out with this more calm and reserved character.
Without romance bias, he's just so fascinating. It is rare for a character in a video game to truly change your perceptions and ideologies like he does, especially in a heavy lore-centric series like Dragon Age. It was to the point that I stood for 10 minutes debating whether to make Cole more human or more spirit, solely because of the things that he taught me and our conversations that slowly but surely began to alter my perceptions. I had leaned heavily towards human especially after reading Asunder and yet this one character came in and not only changed my ideas but also reassured some of my previous ones. He just feels so alive. He is also a bit of a paradox, for he's simultaneously open minded yet judgmental; something that I enjoyed watching play out. He's like a blue flame, quiet and cool but burning with passion. I related to his flaws and character overall and I have a deep appreciation for how complex and multifaceted he is. I knew he was the Dread Wolf before the game came out because I had seen a screenshot of his second tarot card, and that identity and revelation adds an infinite amount of layers to his character. Who really is the Dread Wolf? What are his real motives? Is he a trickster, or a rebel? Why did he truly do what he did? Are the ancient gods actual gods or just revered elves who had magical talent? What did he truly do to Mythal at the end? What will he do now that the orb is broken? How does he plan to fix his mistakes? We all have our own theories and speculations, some with plenty of evidence, but we don't know the answers to these questions for sure.
The fact that there's a diversion in interpretations to his character proves he's one of the more divisive characters we've had in the series. There's no unanimous agreement on whether he's a trickster or a rebel, if he's an evil cunning manipulator or someone who is trying to fix all of the mistakes that he has done, or what instances he was lying and what instances he was being genuine. It's very full of shades of grey, kind of like the DA universe overall. He has his flaws and they can't be denied, but they make me love his character all the more. He is a man of cynicism, but also of pain, loneliness, regret, knowledge, compassion, justice, selfishness, pride, and a desire to make things right.
With my never-ending bias, his romance added so much more to his character. Romancing him is a treat, but I'd say there's something really special about romancing him on your first playthrough, because it really shapes how you view the game and the world inside of it. You never get as invested as in your very first playthrough, and doing his romance on my first led me to have a completely different view on the game from some. It had the least content, but it was full of depth and meaning. It brought to light the person under the mask, his true inner conflicts and turmoils. It conveyed the gravity of his guilt at what he has done, leading me to be unable to view him as an evil cunning mastermind, but more as someone filled with regret from the chain of mistakes he committed that were born from a mixture of pride and defiance. There's many things that are uncertain, but the one thing that I believe is undoubtedly true is that he loved my Lavellan. I accepted his reasons for leaving in spite of the pain, and I've never become so invested in a character or romance like I have with him. I'm doing my own things as the days pass by, but Solas is always on my mind and every day I think about how much I can't wait for what is in store for him in the DLC/perhaps the next game. I know it's definitely not the last we'll see of him, and my mind is going crazy with the possibilities and theories, and I can barely keep myself from jumping in anticipation as I await the DLC announcements.
I kind of just vomited my Solas feelings on here, woops. Props if you read all that.