Oh, That quest. Wow. One of the shockingest moments of DA2, and also one of the reasons I love the game. Hawke's family is so flawed, with uncle Gamlen being such an ass most of the time, but in that moment, in the aftermath, he's actually a person... if you know what I mean. There really is some great writing in that game, and I am definitely gonna have to play it again sometime soon. It's your fault 
But Fenris, dude, how tough can it be to put your arms around the woman and just shut up and hold her? You guys wasted three years...
.... but you made up for it 
EDIT: Apologies, Melbella. I had to erase some of your emoticons.
No problem...I know the site can't handle too many at once. 
Yeah, that quest is tough, and the follow up with Aveline is just....
I try to put it off as long as possible but I don't like to wait too long because Hubert doesn't come back until after it's done. It seems silly to be running back and forth to the Bone Pit when the city is falling apart, but it is a good way for Hawke to get out of Kirkwall and clear her head. Killing stuff always helps. As for Gamlen, he goes right back to being as ass in Act 3. 
- Why, oh why do I always have to fall into that damn hole in Valeska's Watch?!
Trust me, it's not just you. If I can ever manage that quest without falling in the hole, well, I better put the game away and call it quits. 
On This Episode of Dragon Age Inquisition...Realzing the eight slot limit is actually an eight slot limit.
I think this is the thing I like least about DAI. I mean, we go from the entire bottom of the screen filled with talents and spells and whatnot, to a max of 8? Add in the Inquisitor's special anchor powers and you're down to maybe 6. That just isn't enough for a mage, and barely enough for a rogue or warrior. And, there is no reason for it other than developer fiat. It makes no sense game-wise or lore-wise.
I don't remember any crashes from Mana Clash. I used to use it a lot. My canon warden Althelstan was a mage who romanced Morrigan and I remember the two of them happily taking out other mages for fun. It's why I suspect that a mage warden would easily win in a fight with a mage Hawke or Inquisitor...
I had to stop using allies, especially mages, at the archdemon battle because the game would always crash.
That's when I got to know the ballista really well. 