It's a cultural thing you twit. I don't see how demeaning a cultural act of apologizing should net you any points. What the hell more can they do at this point? They have no land and are reviled throughout the land, deemed heretics and accused of performing ghastly acts. Not much being liked on their part (not that the Dalish perspective on humans s much better in some clans).
At its core, it's a goddamn start to proper diplomatic ties.
Would you say the same thing of Orlais? "Oh sorry we invaded your country and brutally repressed your people after conquering you and killing thousands. We promise not to do it again."
*does it again to a different nation*
It's still glaringly stupid, cultural or otherwise.
And the Invasion that happened because the Elves enacted an unprovoked act of war...actually, wait, the Elves the ones pushing into Orlais and burning cities. The Exalted March was called after that. Why would I have anything to say about Orlais?
Because humans killing an Elven man in a fit of pique who's holding a woman and clearly grieving isn't worthy of blame.
Was it redundantly stupid? Of course.
Does it have any bearing on what was to come? Nope, cause the Elves already began the war with their little act of savagery.
Your point?