I have to take a severely compartmentalist view on this game, and that in itself is disappointing. I love certain aspects of it, I think the main story and characters are very good, not great, lacking origins or something like it, with the very cut and dried finale. But the meat of the story and the romance are very engaging. I like having crafting and visualized companion gear, though I very much wish the crafting menus had ready comparisons with current gear. I like the codex a lot. It's mostly all very pretty.
Then there's the endless slog of shallow sidequests and their reliance on what boils down to an aRPG hack-n-slashy combat system. The combat itself I think was actually improved from DA2, but it was hamstrung by their removal of tactics, the aRPG animation/combat turn system, and the endless, relentless repetition. It's also got so much mindless physical repetition, just having to constantly hold a trigger. It all comes out rather forgettable, still. But make that the focus of so much daunting drudgery, and it almost killed the game for me.
I'm fairly completionist too, at least for a run through. I mean, I found all but 2 landmarks, killed six dragons, etc, but I never could find all the tiles to unlock any of their stories despite my best efforts. But sometime early in the Hinterlands, I started to realize there was very little of the zone content I was enjoying, aside from just the occasional break to enjoy the view. But it's DA and I enjoyed the main bits, and it seems like I always get level 25 or close to complete the game. So that's what I did, and I completed everything I could find to comeplete, and I put playing off mostly for a couple days to get my letter from the HoF, and it never got any better. So in the end I feel like I played two games, the main story and the quiet, rushed tour that took me over 200 hours. And I feel I enjoyed the first more than I expected to, and got very little from the second. So I'll replay, but skip as much of the sidequests as I can. I feel they detract significantly from my enjoyment of the parts of the game I really do want to play out. I feel it's a good game, but also a wealth of missed oppurtunity and too much bland stuffing.