100% internalized misogyny. Sorry. "Weak little woman, like a doll, strutting, etc." It's all your projection and you're just proving my point. According to you hegemonic masculinity is the only thing deserving of respect. Anyone who doesn't immediately default to that is weak and unworthy of any leadership position.
Wait, let me guess...You have a tumblr, you actually still believe women are oppressed and you don't consider men to have any sort of societal pressures.
Interalized misogyny my ass.
I just believe that a leader needs to be someone strong enough to lead, especially when written as the inquisitor is. Some weak little girl would not fit the idea of a woman who can hold her own on a battlefield. It makes no sense.
If your character were written like Josephine who doesn't see actual combat, or as a leader like Celene who rules in a political way rather than an in-your-face way it would be appropriate for her to have more feminine posture and movements. However that's not how the character is written. She's a fighter, she kills things and runs all over the continent leading at the forefront of the field, when she's doing that she isn't going to run like she's on a runway and after a long day of fighting and travelling do you really think she'd care about her posture or would she just slump into her throne to get stuff overwith so she could finish up her priorities and go to bed.
I would also like to add that there IS a time and place for femininity, such as during the ball. You have no idea how much it bothered me that even the hyper feminine Josephine and avid player of the game Leliana had to wear boring uniforms rather than dresses that would have been more appropriate for the situation.
As for my own inquisitor it would depend. 4 of my 5 characters would have chosen to wear a dress in that situation and my main may have or at least would have chosen to wear something that didn't look so casual and out of place.
It's not about my personal beliefs so much as the personalities of the characters I chose to create and the physical impossibility of that runway strut they call a walk/run for the femquisitor. I never once said my beliefs were for everyone or even for every character. You chose to put that on me. I'm also a devout atheist but I have two incredibly religious inquisitors, one a devout andrastian and the other devoted to her elven gods. The characters aren't me but that doesn't mean I don't want them to look the part of a powerful military leader and experienced veteran of the field.