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#26
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I don't think age is the concern here. I don't know if straight boys get comfortable with type A personalities like Bunz's single MD chick. Those types of girls can condescend.

But, hey get kinky Bunz. You can have her check your prostate!


Type a? Competitive/perfectionist? You feel to understand how good I am with the ladies.

I think I need a woman who is almost in mom zone to keep my grounded. Young girls are too stupid and immature. Age faster my prostate.

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And if I comment I'll likely get banned again.

 

Ah, screw it.

 

If you really care about her then go for it. Age isn't too much of a difference sometimes.

Sometimes.

Now, if you have yet to get laid then go for her and become her toy. You shall not enjoy it. 



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I'm 27 y/o male. The online dating has really blown up with women talking to me. One that is progressing into something naturally, is with a 37 y/o woman.

She's better looking than me, a doctor so wealthier, and smarter than me. My ego is like 0%.

 

 

I don't normally do this in your threads but I'm going to be serious for once.

 

First off a bit of humility is not a bad thing. I'd be curious why she's interested in you, not saying that to imply anything or be rude, but I'm wondering if she is just looking for a boy toy or whether you two actually have some kind of connection. Either way I think you could possibly learn a thing or two from her (not just talking about getting dirty either... although there certainly is that too ;))


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Good lord Buns, I think at this point this community is desparate happy for you to start dating anyone asap.


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I don't normally do this in your threads but I'm going to be serious for once.

First off a bit of humility is not a bad thing. I'd be curious why she's interested in you, not saying that to imply anything or be rude, but I'm wondering if she is just looking for a boy toy or whether you two actually have some kind of connection. Either way I think you could possibly learn a thing or two from her (not just talking about getting dirty either... although there certainly is that too ;))


Lol I'm clueless myself. I totally act the same way in real life as I do in the forums.
It's physical, probably just be a fling, break my heart....I'm in.

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it scares me with how much he asks and if the above statement is true....................I don't know what to think. 



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Good lord Buns, I think at this point this community is desparate happy for you to start dating anyone asap.


Just wait until i start posting relationship based questions.

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we'll cross that bridge when we get there



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Woman mature faster then men (normally) a girl who is 20 is = to a guy who's 25.

 

Right on! Girl Power! A victory for Equality!



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The bigger the difference in age, the harder it becomes - even if it is just a fling.

For you, I wouldn't reccomend it and would say stick to ladies around your age.

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Right on! Girl Power! A victory for Equality!

 

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Type a? Competitive/perfectionist? You feel to understand how good I am with the ladies.

I think I need a woman who is almost in mom zone to keep my grounded. Young girls are too stupid and immature. Age faster my prostate.

 

Man, you're really skeevy.

 

Anyway, I don't think your MD chick is the mom type, Bun Bunz. I think you're nothing to her. You're like her stress release after a bullshit-filled 80 hour long week, and she just wants to have fun. But, you can always bang her on the visitor's lounge of her office.



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My inner romantic weeps for you. 



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Lol I'm clueless myself. I totally act the same way in real life as I do in the forums.
It's physical, probably just be a fling, break my heart....I'm in.

 

Watch it before you know it you're going to be addicted to her. What are relationships if not momentum? (or something like that)

 

Go with it and try and have some fun. Again, if nothing else I'm sure you'll learn a thing or two from her.



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Hit it and quit it bro. She's a type A personalty and has probably cheated a lot in past relationships.

 

 

There is some reason why she is really hot, really successful and.... Really single.

 

Just an FYI. 

 

 

Does she have kids???? Cause if she does. 

 

 

PASS!

 

Well that's some great analysis right there...

 

It's almost as great as the Myers-Brigg personality test thing going on in the DAI story section of the forums...

 

There is NO legitimate way to come to that conclusion based on the fact that she's 37 and a doctor.



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Bunz, I hope your next thread is a play by play of the MILF action you get in the future.
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Thinking is the enemy. I my experiences with women I have gotten nowhere ever and done nothing. Which leads to a lot of thinking.



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Well that's some great analysis right there...

 

It's almost as great as the Myers-Brigg personality test thing going on in the DAI story section of the forums...

 

There is NO legitimate way to come to that conclusion based on the fact that she's 37 and a doctor.

 

 

Yes, there is, on both accounts.

 

Rationale for Type A:

1.) Doctor-Type B's do not go for demanding or effort intensive work by choice, they lack the drive and irrational dedication. She made the choice to be a doctor knowing full well what it would bring her-demanding, good wages, etc. 

 

Rationale for Cheating:

1.) Doctor = Lots of Education, lots of education = lots of time for booze and bong hits, lots of booze and bong hits is correlated to lots of relationships. 

2.)  Single at age 37- it is extremely rare to see quality women single past their early 30's. Her history is probably a train wreck-either overinvested in a single failed relationship or has had numerous short term relationships and lacks the ability to get them off the ground.

3.) Cheating is easier when influenced by booze and bong hits.

4.) Cheating is easier when surrounded by external stress factors, like being a doctor.

5.) One one has cheated, they are often much more likely to do it again.  Repeat cheats are common. 

6.) Pon Farr: When one is in a labor intensive and high stress environment, it begins to develop pon farr. 

 

You're either a stress vent or a rebound, son.



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Yes, there is, on both accounts.

 

Rationale for Type A:

1.) Doctor-Type B's do not go for demanding or effort intensive work by choice, they lack the drive and irrational dedication. She made the choice to be a doctor knowing full well what it would bring her-demanding, good wages, etc. 

 

Rationale for Cheating:

1.) Doctor = Lots of Education, lots of education = lots of time for booze and bong hits, lots of booze and bong hits is correlated to lots of relationships. 

2.)  Single at age 37- it is extremely rare to see quality women single past their early 30's. Her history is probably a train wreck-either overinvested in a single failed relationship or has had numerous short term relationships and lacks the ability to get them off the ground.

3.) Cheating is easier when influenced by booze and bong hits.

4.) Cheating is easier when surrounded by external stress factors, like being a doctor.

5.) One one has cheated, they are often much more likely to do it again.  Repeat cheats are common. 

6.) Pon Farr: When one is in a labor intensive and high stress environment, it begins to develop pon farr. 

 

You're either a stress vent or a rebound, son.

 

1). Not always.

2). It could be her partners that cheat.

3). See 1.

4). Speculation.

5). True.

6). No idea what Vulcan mating habits have to do with this...



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I'm 27 y/o male. The online dating has really blown up with women talking to me. One that is progressing into something naturally, is with a 37 y/o woman.

She's better looking than me, a doctor so wealthier, and smarter than me. My ego is like 0%.

 

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Really though, this is getting a bit tiresome. If you're telling the truth just shut up and date the 37 year old.



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But if you don't care, then it shouldn't matter. I'd just be intimidated by the fact that she's a doctor and is probably making more money than you will ever make. 

An interesting thing I learned from a nurse friend of mine: doctors make a huge salary, yes. However, a vast majority of them have very expensive tastes/lifestyles which translates into a shockingly small amount of disposable income. This is not ALL doctors, of course. Just a friend's personal observations.



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I know the feel, I'm dating someone older than the universe because of how many times she's traveled between dimensions and across time.

 

But when she gets close and whispers sweet madness into my ear driving my brain into multiple aneurisms, I am truly at peace, and her age is just an inquantifiable number.

 

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Yes, there is, on both accounts.

 

Rationale for Type A:

1.) Doctor-Type B's do not go for demanding or effort intensive work by choice, they lack the drive and irrational dedication. She made the choice to be a doctor knowing full well what it would bring her-demanding, good wages, etc. 

 

I felt like analyzing this portion a bit.

 

I won't dispute the Type A thing directly as it's not my area of interest, but I will dispute certain parts of this statement.

 

We do not know what type of doctor she is. She could be a medical doctor, or she could have a PHD.

 

If she is a medical doctor what type of doctor is she? Is she a general practitioner, a researcher, or a specialist? Each of those come with a certain amount of required work, and may be completely unrelated to her cheating on her romantic partners (which I addressed previously).

 

If she has a PHD then what subject did she get it for? What does she do with the PHD besides try to make her dating profile appear more appealing?



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Good lord Buns, I think at this point this community is desparate happy for you to start dating anyone asap.


I guess everyone are getting a little bit jaded about these Bunz episodes now.

They've had some entertainment value though.

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Woman mature faster then men (normally) a girl who is 20 is = to a guy who's 25.

 

Not precisely true. Many women in their twenties act just like men in that they go out with friends and get drunk. Older women - who are in their thirties - are far more my thing than younger women because they are more sensible and far better looking IMO. Women in their twenties, I find, are still as immature as the men just in a different way.

 

I'm 20 but I would easily date a 30-35 year old woman if the opportunity came along and it was someone who I knew cared for me too.  Oddly, I do get along and form better friendships with older women than I do with younger women or women my age. I also have a relative who married a woman 10 years older than him and they've been happily married now for decades and I know plenty of others in this scenario proving that age doesn't matter (well not unless that person is really really really older than their lover by like 20-30+ years! In which case it can still work I suppose but probably not as often and that's personally not my thing either). I hear of 10 year age gaps being quite common now and working rather than anything older.

 

Pros: head knowledge, experience & never having to hear the phrase "What do I do with it??"

Cons: sagging, wrinkled skin, emotional baggage, funeral costs

:)

 
TBH the cons will happen to someone equally your age if they die before you.
 
Some women seem to live longer than men at least by a decade (although the actual average is 4-6 years longer according to the research which you can Google) so even if you do end up married to a woman 10 years older, there's a chance that you'll die before her still anyway.

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